I feel like no-one likes me anymore because I've become boring?

Question

Basically my friends and I used to be the really hyperactive immature ones who laughed all the time and took nothing seriously. But since I've broken up from my ex over 2 years ago, my life has just gone downhill. I never enjoy hanging out with my friends anymore - I never laugh alot like I used to. And I'm loosing my friends because I never have fun anymore or see them because I know it will be boring/I feel like I'm not wanted.

It's like I enjoy my own company more than anything nowadays, but I look like such an anti-social looser and sometimes I do feel really lonely.

Help?

Answer 1

whats with all the freakin drama??? get over it!!!

Answer 2

like the commercial: Just do it.  

Answer 3

That happened to me too after I broke up with my first ex. I actually got another boyfriend who helped to fix my social-issues with others.

Don't be afraid to be yourself just because of a simple break up. They happen, and the best thing to do is just move on. Time heals all wounds, and I'm sure that somewhere inside of you is that same hyperactive personality just longing to come out and show itself to the world.

Answer 4

Don't think of yourself like that! I'm sure you're not boring! What really helps when you feel this way about yourself is making a list of 5 things you like about yourself, and a list of 10 things why life is great. Hang out with your friends more often and let them know how you feel. If they are your real friends then they'll understand. Make friends and don't worry about your break-up, there's a reason he didn't make it to your future. Try laughing more, look up jokes and make reasons for yourself to be happy.

When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show it you have one thousand reasons to smile.