I feel like such a loser right now?

Question

My husband is really mad at me for allowing friends from New Orleans to stay with us, and he won't speak to me...or anyone...And I know when they leave to go back home my husband is really gonna let me have it (anger and ranting). My ex is mad because I goofed up the schedule for daughter to go to his house. I feel like I cant do anything right, Im afraid to do anything for fear of goofing it all up. Guess Im just needing to vent and hopefully get some encouragement. thanks

Answer 1

i think i answered one of your questions yesterday to. I am going to say it again your husband is not a caring husband. He only cares about himself. I understand u didnt ask him but i mean those people that are living with u now could of lost everything. I mean come on only for a few days im sure he can handle it.

Answer 2

I think you did something great. Dont worry God will see you through.

Answer 3

its just a phase... its gonna pass.... have patience...

Answer 4

Dont get down on yourself. It just sounds like your havin a rough week but for what its worth, i applaude you for helping out your friends in need. Keep your head up lady, itll all be ok!!

Answer 5

I think your should let your hubby be and *** in the room and you and your friends have a GREAT time without him. Even if he yells after they leave at least make it worth it. And as for your daughter well mom's are busy people and we make mistakes it happens all the time. Have a great time with your friends.  

Answer 6

the first 2 answers are right

Answer 7

First of all yes you should of talked to your husband first before you let them stay however what is done is done.  That is your house too.   Your ex will get over it he will be able to see her other times.  Just chalk this one up as a mistake and next time talk to your husband before visitors from out of town stay and also talk to the ex and tell them you would like the child to stay with you due to....  

Answer 8

It will all work out.  as long as you keep trying to do good it will work out.  These are just little things that get in your way of trying to do good so let them pass and keep on with the way you are going.  Just act like you are listening when he is ranting then say you understand and go about your business.

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