I feel like there is no hope?

Question

ok yea, this is pretty pathetic but I guess I am one of those guys who feel like I have to be so much more and do so much just to be with a girl. The last time I had a gf was when I was 20 I am now 23 and ever since the break up I've learned a lot and said to myself man maybe it wasn't the right time. It's been a while and I guess I feel like having another commitment with a girl but for some reason I hold myself back. I'm still in school trying to get a degree, trying to get a part time job for now which I have no luck for the past year or so, I guess I'm trying to find myself. I don't really know how to get away from this typical simple insecurity. I heard this type of insecurity is common among all of us. How do you cope with it? Anyone one want to cheer me up and give me some good advice of to keep moving forward?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

i say being insecure is nothing to do with the other person..it's you yourself that you're battling with...being in a relationship and having doubts it's mainly cause you don't trust yourself...(but if ever you feel doubts about a relationship there's a reason why) maybe you need to find yourself and love yourself first before you start a commitment...

maybe deep inside you want to be ready and stable before beginning a new path somewhere else..hope you understand what i'm say...it's like driving down a long stretch of highway...you want to get to the end where you make either a right or left turn not cut across it not knowing what it holds cause there's no pavement..so you're going in blind sighted...to get to where the road is clear so you know better which way to turn is like making a clear sure decision....hope that helps goodluck