I feel pain during sexual intercourse?

Question

When he thrusts I feel like he's hitting something inside and it hurts. "It" can come inside as deeply as 4,5 inches and at this point it really hurts (sorry about all these details, I just really need to know what's wrong) I had s*x only 3 times in my life, maybe this pain will pass after I "practice" a little more? But I don't think so. Should I tell a doctor about this and is it something a doctor can do? Or maybe I can do something?

Answer 1

maybe you should go to the doctor just to be safe

Answer 2

First of all, 4 to 5 inches is the average size of a woman.

Secondly, maybe your man is too long for you.  I know people obsess over length and whatnot, but if a man is TOO long, the girl can feel like she's being punched in the gut.  Is that what you're feeling?

Thirdly, I wouldn't go to a doctor.  I'd go to an ob/gyn if I were you.  That's what they specialize in.  

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

it sounds a bit like hes hitting your cervix, its quite normal so dont worry. just ask him not to go in so deep. its not a medical problem so you dont need to go to your doctor.  He will soon get to know how far he can go without hurting you.

Answer 4

If you continue to have pain each time you have s*x, i would talk to a doctor and have her check you out to make sure nothing is wrong. Also, talk to your guy about going a little softer. This could just be hurting because it is new to you. But s*x is suppposed to be pleasurable, so if this continues, take action.

Answer 5

It might be because you have only had s*x just a few times. But to be on the safe side i would go to the doctor and get checked out to make sure that it isn't something like pelvic inflammatory disease. Pelvic inflammatory disease can cause you to become infertile pretty quickly because it can cause scaring on you fallopian tubes. So it is better to be safe then sorry. If the pain comes and goes as he thrusts he might be hitting the walls of your v****a which can hurt.  

Answer 6

Could be that he is too big for you, the fact that you've only done it 3 times or it could be the position you do it in. If he's on top try you on top then you have better control of how much of him goes in you and when it hurts just pull up some. s*x is supposed to be a fun thing not a painful one.

Good luck

Answer 7

I have the same issue and it's really frustrating. I was told that I have vaginismus (trouble controlling muscle spasms) and I suspect that you have the same. But I'm no doctor so you might want to check with your doc. Try also applying a lot of lubrication and aiming the penetration toward your back as opposed to just straight up. hope this helps :)

Answer 8

it'll get better once you do it more.