I feel ready for a relationship, but can't seem to find a guy I'm actually attracted to! Help?!?

Question

I'm in my second year in college, and would really like to get a boyfriend. I've never had one. Since most of my friends have bf's they often ask me to tell them which guy I fancy, but the problem is I don't see any guy that actually sets my heart racing! I mean, I do see guys that I think are 'cute', but I don't genuinely want to take the trouble to get to know them! Is something wrong with my hormones/? I'm sure I'm not les or anything. It's just that being single is getting to me, and yet I dont seem to see any guy I'm REALLY attracted to. What do I do?

Answer 1

well thats da way it goes sweets...

u hafta know da person well b4 u start datin him...

n bout da interesting guys..

de r plenty...

it actually depends on which college r u in??

r u from mumbai??

is dats da case i think i can give u some tips n can help u out...

n it actually is wot u want at da end of the day n not ur frenz....

tc...

add me up at [e-mail] if u wanna talk bout tis...

cheers :)

Answer 2

You probably are bad looking.

It's just the truth.

However..

Lose some weight, go shopping, shave your beard.

Whatever.

Take some estrogen.

Profit.

Answer 3

You will get one soon...:) all the best!!!

Answer 4

Hey girl!! so what if you dont have a boyfreind? Its not the end of the world is it? Good to know you dont get random crushes on guys. Its normal i think. This means you just wont settle for second best. But one thing i must tell you, and that is,try your very best at whatever you are doing at the moment. Please dont be depressed or anything. concentrate on your studies, and never depend on a man for your happiness.

There will be no shortage of men coming after you after you land a hi fi job at a multinational!! And once you find Him, you will know. and even if he has some shortcomings, you wont even notice. Trust me. And chin up girl!!! There is more to this life than guys. Have a Magnum and enjoy every bite!! chill out!!

Answer 5

Keep looking, one day you'll find the one you seek.  Putting pressure on yourself to hurry up will not help......only make you more frustrated.  Perhaps be a little more patient with the blokes as well.  A boring start may get better with some guidance in the right direction.

Answer 6

I Am Attracted To Everyone And I Dont Have A Girlfriend Because I Am Not That Easy. So, I Dont Have A Girlfriend.

Answer 7

HI ,,,

May be i could help ..lol

Just hold on   if you see the right guy  you will know

Cheers

Answer 8

I don't think there's anything wrong with you you just haven't meet the right guy yet.. Maybe you should broaden your horizon a bit and take a look at the internet instead of the guys at your college. I've had great experience with meeting new people over the internet and in that way you can talk to them and see what they're all about without any obligations whatsoever. I find it to be the greatest way to meet new people and I think that what you're looking for may be out there somewhere. if you want a tip on which sites to go to I've recently used the site http://secret4play.net/. Check it out an good luck:)

Answer 9

what an idiot you are no bad looking what has that got to do with anything!

hey i was in your position i just thought i was picky until one day i started work and got my first big crush at the age of 18 it was amazing then after that they wouldnt stop lol, give it some time...

:) good luck x*x