I feel really suicidal about this please help?

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thats my story but now I feel really suicidal and bad and like I want to cut myself again my mom is all drunk and i feel terrible please please help how do i stop feeling sad because i still like this guy.

help???

Answer 1

I think you are relying on this guy for happiness while he is sitting back laughing at you with his girlfriend.  Do you want that?  Do you want him to continue to have fun while you wallow in depression?  Nope! It's best that you get out there, meet some more guys and go out with your friends.  I know you don't want to hear this, but you can do better. It seems that he wanted you to know that he had a new girlfriend so he can make you feel more bad, you don't need that.

Please don't harm yourself because your life is as important as everyone else.  I know you may think your mom doesn't care, but she does.  She just has a weird way of showing it.  Try talking to her.

Talk to your doctor about your feelings and maybe he can refer you to some free mental health resources.  I know there's got to be one.

If you ever need someone to talk to, you can email me or try contacting me.

Answer 2

Your first love is always the hardest to get over and often times you will think of him for years to come. I think in these situations the only thing that may heal you is time. As far as cutting I don't know what to tell you. I know alot of young people do in now days. I can tell you that it is not a healthy way to relieve stress. You may want to try going for a walk with a friend and talking about it. Also in regards to your mom drinking, it sounds like she has trouble coping with situations to and uses alcohol to deal with her problems. Parents often teach their children coping skills. Because your mom has difficulty coping you may not have learned those skills which puts you at a disadvantage. You will have to find positive ways to cope in your life. This is a up hill task but once you develop these skills life gets easier. All my best.

Answer 3

First of all... is this the first time you have been suicidal? If so, I am also assuming you are young, a teenager maybe. Let me give you some advice. I know its hard to believe me, but one day, you will laugh at all the pain this guy has caused you... there will be many more loves in your life and you will learn from each of them. Life is not worth throwing away for a guy... i mean really- in the big picture this is not worth dying over. As for the cutting issues, this is like any other addiction which will require therapy. Get help, and be open and honest, but please don't hurt yourself, he is not worth it and think of the pain you will cause to all the people who love you, it would be a selfish act.

Answer 4

The only thing I can tell you is get help.  Look in the phone book for a crisis number and call them or call the police.  Get help please.

Answer 5

I'd suggest contacting some sort of family services office in your area and asking them to help get you removed from your drunk mother and find a counselor.  If the state removes you from the home, they will MAKE SURE you get the help you want at no cost, and probably get your mother the help she needs.  

Answer 6

Please call 911 NOW.................

Answer 7

Why are you head over heels over this guy ?

There are so much more wonderful things in life waiting for you. How could you miss it ?!

By committing suicide, you are not solving any problems, in fact you are just avoiding. And by the end of the day, no one will respect you.

Don't do anything stupid. Do you think you will feel better after you commit suicide ? Do you know how painful to wait for your death ?

So many people wanted another chance to live and you have a choice to live yours.

If you really want a guy, why not consider me ? Contact me through my email and we'll talk. I can't promise i can help, but at least I am a good listener.