I feel retarded?

Question

so i started 2 work with my ant at her store and i will be standin at the counterand i am 20 weeks pregnant and people will b like how old r u and i would tell them 14 and some of them r like o my god u r stupid and start like freakin out on me like tellin me that im so young i shouldnt b havin s*x and stuff and i am just kind of sik of it what should i do? do u think im stupid? please b honest with me

Answer 1

I think you obviously weren't mature enough to have s*x since you got pregnant and didn't properly know how to use contraceptives. When they ask you how old you are, say oh that doesn't matter! haha. Or be like, I'm old enough but I just look really, really young.

Answer 2

I don't think you're mature enough to be having s*x at 14, I wouldn't say you're stupid, but you made a stupid decision to have s*x.

You're going to get a lot of reactions like this, even more when you get further into your pregnancy. All you can do is get use to it. It isn't really anyone else's business, especially people coming into your aunt's shop and I'm surprised people do this. Talk to your Aunt about it and see what she says.

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Answer 3

Everybody makes mistakes, and yours was a big one!

I don't think your stupid, but you defiantly made a mistake, when people ask you how old you are just make them feel uncomfortable about asking be like 'why do you want to know', or something like that!

i hope it all works out for you and you give birth to a beautiful healthy baby xx