I feel so guilty!?

Question

I feel so guilty, well I was at my boyfriends house and his mother left (she trusts us). We both told each other we are going to save ourselfs for marriage. We been together for 3 years. Well when his mom left it got kinda rowdy. We went as far as giving each other oral s*x and taking a shower together. we've been going really far lately . I just don't want to have s*x with him. When we are in the moment, my mind is not on that. I already know about pregnancy etc, STDS! I am already on birth control( to control my periods and cramps)...

How can I stop myself from going past oral s*x and taking a shower together..

we are both 16.

Answer 1

just relax.

only be around him when your parents or his parents are around.

do not take a shower with him.

Answer 2

Just think of yourself in the shower, hugging and kissing with a huge beachball (baby) in the middle of you both.

EDIT: You asked how you can try not to have s*x or take a shower together, and I told you. Anything can happen if it's in God's will, birth control or not.

EDIT: Birth control doesn't ALWAYS work.

EDIT: Then don't say 'I'm not going to get pregnant, I'm on BCP'. It's really hypocritical.

Answer 3

Personally i like tha 2nd answer u got best. And sk8 gurl, its so good that u r THAT intelligent, but i dont think she needs help figurin that out....ANYWAY!

I guess tha best thing that you can do is jus not be alone wit him like that 4 very long. Ive been havin 2 do this 4 tha past week and a half now. Im kinda gettin tha feelin that if i dont sumthan im not ready 4 will happen and im 15 so i kno im not ready and im runnin out of excuses lol. He respects tha fact i wana stay a virgin. Jus that when u get in that moment....its sooo hard! So thats tha best thing i can recommend.

Answer 4

Stop putting yourself in situations where the 2 of you are alone for long periods of time together. Go make out at the movies. Keep a lot of company that way you have to curtail your physical affections. Hopefully it won't make you guys want each other more...the science of attraction is a tough one. Be strong...pray...imagine things that turn you off...GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 5

Don't put yourself in compromising situations like that. It only leads to getting caught in the moment.

Answer 6

dont take a shower or have oral s*x.

dont completely alone together.

good luck hope it works

oh yeah oral s*x is s*x.

just wont get pregnant

Answer 7

God-you need to wake the fu(k up.

How old are you? --- 16...is that an adult? NO!

And you don't want to have s*x?

Hun-you had oral s*x.

Realize the concept in the word s*x!

Grow up.

Like 18 and have s*x!

You're going to get pregnant and you are going to  make the biggest mistake of your life-when you should have listened to me.