I feel so left out in this society.?

Question

I am an Indian and grew up in the capital. My mother died twhen i was 9. I was left to take care of my 3 year old brother then. My father was always too cold for forming an emotional bond with me. I was usually left alone with my brother to watch TV and no socialising. My family and relatives were ruled by a woman (my mother's sister) who was always against me and my father andsaid nasty things about him. This made me hate her and i stopped maintaining any contact with that rude woman. The result of which she started speakings things about me too and encouraged all my relatives to not maintain any conact with us. She was rude, arrogant and b*tchy, but everything in my family went like she wanted. So we were osctracized by my relatives. I was left alone with no female bonding or contact. The Indian society is biased and differentiates between girls and boys. So as i grew into a tennage girl, my father started to keep away from me even more and my br

Answer 1

I can understand and feel your pain. I myself am Indian and I know how it is to be discriminated against, due to gender differences.

Do not leave your family. We all know how young girls are taking advantage of often get mixed in the wrong crowd.

Keep on continuing and doing well in your studies. This will be your weapon, with education you can achieve anything. Set a goal in your life, so you have something to live for.

Try not to let these things get to you. I understand its very hard. But try to do meditation, trust me it really helps. You need positive energy and meditation will give it to you. Also via meditation you will connect to your inner self and discover who you really are, you will inherit a shakti.

Try speaking to you father and tell him how you really feel. I understand how some fathers are towards their daughters, so if he does'nt really show any interest just ignore it. This happens alot in India. Focus on yourself. Don't care too much about others, if they don't care for you. Treat others how they treat you. Keep faith in god and life.

I would really like to help you.

Have faith, everthing happens for a reason.

Best Wishes in life

- Ravneet. (Ravii)

Answer 2

The affects of that environment are that it's probably going to leave you a social cripple unless you get therapy - and the sooner, the better.  Think of it this way - we are what we learned and because you didn't learn what a loving, warm, supportive relationship was, you won't know one when you see one - specifically with males.

Answer 3

You must of had it hard. All you can do is get up and make something of yourself, bring in an income and live the life you've always wanted. It's easier said than done but it isn't impossible.

Answer 4

Let me tell ya, feeling left out does not discriminate between the haves and have nots in society. Growing up, I had the advantage of many of the things you didn't, and yet I feel left out as well. But, you either deal with it, or you let it fester and eat at you until it completely cripples you. So, which will you choose...?

Answer 5

1.)make something of your self

2.)pick up the holy bible, and look for a message.

You feel so left out of society because you are not of this society, you are not of this world, you are of God. :)

Good Luck