I feel so sad and left behind?

Question

ok i am half american and asian. right now me and my family are living here in phil. i just move school because of my failing grades but i tottaly change and its all good not. buttt the only problem is friends. yes my classmates don't want to talk to me i mean like hang out. i feel so left behind. i try to talk to them and say hey can we hang out. but they said yeah and walk right away. i don't know whats the problem i feel so ugly and down. please people give me some tips what to do. because many people pity me especially my teacher. she said try making friends. but how? everytime i try to. but i always fail because they just don't like. i dont know what they don't like about me. they just walk away. please give me some tips. i don't know what to do anymore. and i don't want my teachers feel sorry about me. tnx in advance

Answer 1

First of all remove the portion of self-pity. You dig upon too much maybe, try to calm down (your mind) & all those "reasons" will have to give you a side if you don't allow them to get bigger than your natural self.

good luck!

Answer 2

Kids are sometimes very involved in their own groups of friends and forget to include new people. I think you should try to get involved in an activity such as band or the ecology club.  Chose something you really like and you will have a lot in common with the other kids.  

Answer 3

You are a new person and it´s rather normal that you´re not accepted as equal in those kids´groups. Don´t take it at all for too serious.

Stop trying to "make friends". Show that you are fine even this way..on your own. I don´t mean you should start arrogant, simply like nothing happened. Accept they have different preferences in choosing company and cary on.

Sooner or later, there will be some individuals whose attention YOU will attract and the situation will gradually change.

Answer 4

You know what? Be confident, be better, be brighter.

People like that in this world don't deserve friends at all.

I wouldn't understand why. Are you shy? Do you let people push you over easily? Well don't!

Maybe they think your too "easy", that you are a target for them.

If you stand up for yourself and show them your stronger maybe they will be acceptant.

I seriously hope things work out for the best.

No one deserves what you are going through

Many Wishes.