I feel so unsexy and i can't stand it, what can i do to stop this?

Question

i am 20 years old and i never get any indication that i am lusted after by women. i only get indication that women are find any sexual thoughts about me repulsive and that they generally don't want me showing interest in them.

and i know that women do lust in the same way that men do. women often want sexual attention from and relationships with guys my age and younger especially. and L*****n women are interested in sexual relations with women in general. the lust is not there when it is with guys like me.

so it's not that women need more than looks to lust or that they don't lust, it's just that i am physically unappealing. this is constantly hurting me. i can't get over it, especially when i see all the images in the media of women enjoying their sexuality with attractive guys. i feel like i am flawed in some way. i am so depressed and can't concentrate on anything. how can i get rid of these feelings?

Answer 1

The problem here is this:

women are more attracted to presence than to looks

women want a guy that is confident and bold, and will go after THEM

if you have this disorder, or you are constantly worried about yourself

they sense it

they smell it like sharks

and it will turn them off instantly

only worsening the problem you already have

The best advice I can offer you is buck up, and get brave

stop worrying about your looks because honestly they dont care that much about how you look

i mean, how many hot girls have you seen with tubby neandertheals?

I see it all the time, or with slimy gangbangers, or with just nasty as* guys....  it isn't the looks as much as you'd think

girls are attracted to confidence

until you get some, you aren't going to do well

Answer 2

Dude you have to have more confidence so girls will dig you. Who wants an insecure guy if girls are typically the ones who are insecure about themselves.

I also think that you should be yourself and accept it and someone who really appreciates you won't even care for your flaws. I mean who doesn't have flaws. No one is perfect just love yourself. In the end your partner will love you no matter what you look like.

Hopefully you feel better and find your true love.  :)

Answer 3

Try a good antidepressant. See your doctor about this.