I feel so worthless and i have a low-self esteem?

Question

ok i m a high school chick but i look REALLY young. Im a senior but i look like a middle schooler. people point it out a lot and now it rlly gets to me. looking young sucks b/c no one takes u seriously and i have a baby voice. to top it all off, almost every day i feel ugly as he** and it distracts me from learning. What can i do?

Answer 1

High schools tough but it will finish soon enough! You need to buckle down at school and not worry about what other people think cause its what you do after school finishes that is important.  Teenagers are cruel to each other. Just do it, forget everyone else, use study as revenge because you will be the one with the good life 10 years down the track.  You are not ugly, no-one is, we all have the same features, 2 ears, 2 eyes, 1 nose and one mouth, so what is beauty anyway!!!

Good luck! :-)

Answer 2

always look on the bright side of life

Answer 3

Pray and look for Jesus Christ. He will change your whole life and even your voice and please think positive about yourself. Do not curse yourself by talking negative.

When my son was 16 years of age, he looked like a little boy of 12 years of age. Just a little kid.

I am Christian and always that I was going to the Evangelic Church I invited him and told him that God will change him and make him grow tall. I insisted because I believe in God and I knew that God could do it. Every time I prepared myself to go to Church he disappear. But one day he took the decision to go to Church with me accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior of his life and the Lord did change him. He grew up tall, 5'11".  

Jesus Christ made the change on him. For God there is nothing impossible. He do miracles in our life. I believe in the Lord Jesus Christ.

"Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4).

Be blessed and God bless you.

Answer 4

just wait till you hit puberty

Answer 5

I was the same way in high school, just realize in 10,20,30 years you will still look young and all those ******* that are saying that to you, will have wrinkles and look even OLDER!

Hang in there, you're not ugly and I've learned that YOU ARE LUCKY to look young : )

Answer 6

What I think is that they are jealous. Being young is actually a great thing! Who would want to look old? In the short run, sure looking young might be a bit annoying, but hey look at yourself in maybe 40 years from now! When you look at the people that make fun of you for looking young, you'll be the one to make fun of them for looking old!

Don't let those stupid and jealous remarks get to you. Looking young isn't all that bad! My high school friend who looks extremely young tend to get huge discounts on everything, and that usually makes me jealous... Children prices for admission into theme parks, getting away with trouble, etc.

Looking young is a pretty thing, so that should not make you feel ugly at all. Be optimistic!  

Answer 7

dont listen to them and think on the bright side when you get older you will still look young but the people making fun of you will be all wrinkled and saggy  

Answer 8

i was the same way 10 years ago now i run into all the people that used to giv me c**p and theyre all beat up and fat and look like c**p and have horrible relation ships    f*** them there is a reason they wrote that ''ugly duckling'' story

               just remember your real friends wont judge you  you dont need to beat yor self up!!!

Answer 9

im a visible minority so how do u think i feel at least ur prob from that country and look "white". if u are white u will fit into the group for for us minorities even if we can speak perfect english tey think less of oyu. just think that people other then u have it worser then u so be lucky for that!! who cares if you look really young older guys like young girls like me. and also when u do look more older guys will chase you and just ignore them for those who were mean to u. i know plenty of girls that looked ugly back then and they turned out to be sooo hot later in life.. good luck! and s***w those people that point u out thats what i did i dont care what people think about me