I feel ugly!!! What do I do to boost my self-esteem?

Question

I am a girl.

Every time I look in the mirror all I can see is my faults (like eye bags, upper lip hair--ugh gross, etc.)

All those home remedies for eye bags do not work for me. I think they are hereditary.

That "it's what's inside that counts!" stuff doesn't help.

What do I do?!

Answer 1

go to the spa and to relax about how you look. go get your hair done and get some new lip gloss.

Answer 2

Just try to embrace what you have, and look at the good things about yourself. be kind to yourself, dont be harsh. everyone has there flaws, we all do.. at least you can relate to that.

Answer 3

I have really bad bags too for some reason. The only thing i do is wear concealer...lol i like the mac concealer...this concealer is so good they use it to cover up tattoos...and its not the way it sounds..its not clumpy or anything its really good!! Go to mac and dont worry about what you look like im sure your gorgeous

Answer 4

you can get rid of your upper lip hair by waxing it at home or go to a salon.

for you bags, you could buy some cream that might help from wal mart or something!

Answer 5

uhm you can get your lips waxed no big deal whenever i go to a salon a lot of people do it.and try to stop looking at your faults and look at the good things, something i read in my mag. find a picture u really like of youself and put it somewhere you will see it every day and when u see it you will think of yourself like that every day and then you will hopefully feel more confident

hope i could help

Answer 6

when i feel bad and ugly which you are NOT!!!!!! i invite my friends over and we have a spa  day, we relax, do yoga, do eachothers hair, do makeovers, and you can wax your upper lip hatr, as for the eye bags, when you wake up, put some peach colored eyelineer on the bottom of your eye, it will make the bags slightly go away, and put some blush or something underneathe your eye too

hope i helped:)

HAVE FUN!!!!!!!

Answer 7

try to improve your appearance the best possible!!! Don't worry about wearing a lot of makeup...instead remove the upper lip hair with an over the counter wax kit (I use sally hansen wax strips..like 5 or 6 dollars at drug stores) and you can wear some foundation or concealer and maybe mascara and lipgloss. Just go all natural girlie!! I bet you're really pretty!!

Amber! =)

Answer 8

there are something call makeup :)

Answer 9

start by looking at your positive traits.and believe in what you say.. your confidence will build easier if you can be positive..

good luck!!

Answer 10

yeah i have bags too=/

i hate it, but in the summer it doesnt bother me cause

i get enough sleep.

and for my upperlip hair, i just get waxed. it lastsfor like 2 weeks.

Answer 11

To feel confident you have to love yourself and your body and treat yourself and others with respect!

To show others your confidence and make it shine with out looking cocky or look like you think your hot stuff do this:

1. Smile at people if you find each other looking at each other and be smiley all the time and when other ppl look at you -- smile! It seems like a really little thing but it goes along way because it shows them your interested in what there saying and your not bored which makes you more out going (because it sounds like your confident but don't know how to show it ) and if you don't smile people might think your a snot!

2. Be confident by doing the things im telling you.

3. Stand up tall- Do I sound like your mom :) haha- but really if you slouch it looks like your unsure of your self or shy/and unconfident. Try keeping your weight destriputed evenly on both feet to.

4. Be friendly to others and act like your interested in what there saying- other people like talking about themselfs so ask them a lot about them so you seem friendly!

5. Act silly and be yourself but you seem more confident if you don't act stupid silly and flirty to get attention if you know what I mean-- It just looks like your trying to get attention- Don't strive for attention ...earn it and you'll get it and be "popular" if your kind to others and present yourself in a differnt way

6. EYE CONTACT!!!

If you want to do confident builders try

1. Looking in the middle and finding 5 things you love about your body

2. Write down words that describe you and words you want people to think of when they hear you name and strive for it and figure out how to do it.

3. Get exersice and lots of sleep and water!

4. Smile it makes you feel confident

5. Wear clothes your comfy in!

-- Don't tell your self your pretty in front of others - be modest

Also bring a makeup bag with a brush, toothbrush and paste, razor, pony tales, mini straighter, etc. common stuff you get ready with so that on a day you might have been on a rush and missed a spot shaving- you will be able to fix it up and won't worry about that and you'll feel more confident

Pack a snack like and apple and a reusable water bottle and nurish your self so you can feel your best and act it too!!

-Replace each bad though you see in the mirror with a 5 good ones and each negative thoughs with 5 things your thankful for

and ask your mom and tell her how you feel its a thing every girl has gone through and someone ,older sis, any one can help you boast and help you feel more confident by helping you fix things like upper lip hair by waxing it for you if you want

Its how you carry yourself not what you look like-- The most beautiful ppl I know are supermodels!!!

Have a great year being more confident !!

Best of luck !!!

Answer 12

hey dont put your self down all the time......spend some quliti time wit ur self..........like a bubble bath........do ur make up....have a slumber party....go to the mall and bie clothes that show ur cerves.or jewlri that coments ur eyes.............you need to well just ask ur friends for a ,ake over and it works........................take my addvice and just spend some time wit ur self:::">">">"L:

Answer 13

hey us guys arent perfect either. try 2 b positive about your image. smile =)

Answer 14

if you have problems, try to do something about it. dont let people tell you what to do with yourself. you need to try doing it yourself and stop making people do it for you.

Answer 15

you need to realize that everyone has flaws, and you know what, 98% of girls feel the exact same way. your flaws arent the only thing someone sees when they look at you, and, play up your  eyes! I bet they are really cute! wear a bright eyeshadow!!! I have these insane bags, and you know what, i learned to live with them. they are black and the rest of my face is ivory. i like them, in a very, very, twisted way.

Answer 16

Date a rockstar....

dat will boost ur confidence

And I didnt say p***star

Answer 17

Go to a salon to get the hair waxed above your lip I do it and it is no big deal. And for eyebags try to use foundation or cover up or something like that. Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...