I feeling uncomfortable around Boy Friends friends?

Question

I mostly get along with men, a little better then women naturally, but have been with my BF for over a yr and just can't seem to shake that fact that none of his friends have any real interest in getting to know me, and feel like I'll only ever be "one of the girlfrineds"He says it's all in my head. Do other girls feel this way?

Answer 1

I used to feel the same way when my boyfriend and i started going out, mostly with his best friend. They're like brothers and i didn't want to intrude or anything so i always felt like a bit of an outsider. For the first 7 or 8 months, his best friend and i would talk and we got along okay i guess but it was nothing big. After that he started to warm up to me and then we got really close when my boyfriend had to go on a mission trip and his friend and i hung out a lot and we got to know each other a lot more. I asked him bout it and he said he was just worried about his friend falling for the wrong girl but after really talking to me he realized i'm the best girl for my boyfriend. Now it's like i'm his little sister, we're incredibly close...he teases and picks on me but protects me and is always there when i need to vent.

Just try to take the initiative to get to know your guys friends. Don't intrude if they have seperate plans but if you're all together, get involved and they'll warm up to you more and more, i'm sure of it.

Answer 2

Yea they do!

Answer 3

ask your boyfriend, "why does it seem like your friends dont like me? its kind of intimidating.... =(" and that may bring you an answer (he might fix it, yay! lol ) =D

Answer 4

okay .. . .         most of us guys are like that my freinds girlfriend is his girlfriend not mine i honestly barely even talk to them

dont take it so personally