I fell in love with a sheriff!?

Question

We both fell in love at the same time. She thought I would run as soon as she told me she was a sheriff's deputy, instead, through talking even more, I told her that I have a felony on my record. I got caught with a joint (misdemeanor charge) but tried to destroy it (felony). This happened long before I met her, but now we can't even associate or she could lose her job, (or worse). Anybody else that has ever been this this position and overcome it to find and keep their love, please comment.

Answer 1

That doesn't make sense to me.  It doesn't make sense that she would lose her job over dating you ... especially for what is obviously one of the least serious felonies that I've ever heard of.  Also, you said she can lose her job, (or worse) ... what else could happen to her that's worse than losing her job?  Either your story isn't complete or I'm missing something.

I hate to say this, but are you positive she's telling you the truth?  Most cops in my experience aren't that prim, but some are.  It could be she just doesn't want to date someone who used to smoke pot.

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You should post this in the law enforcement section, someone there might know.