I fell out of love with you what did you do?

Question

Hello your wife/husband told you I love you but im not in love with you what did you do? Did you work on your marriage or did it end in a divorce?

Answer 1

i said it and we're working on it currently.

been in counseling 9 months. still not much different, but a little

Answer 2

When a person falls out of love, a lot more than just that goes away.....

They lose respect for their partner, and entertain themselves with someone new.

They forget the person they fell in love with is a human being with feelings, and purposely say things that will cut like a knife.

They forget the person they fell in love with isn't prepared to just swallow the break up and go on about life like they were just roommates.

So when a person tells you that they aren't in love anymore, they made a life altering decision for both of you, that was already made in their heart and mind weeks or months before they bothered to give you notice.

So in a lot of ways, it's like saying **** YOU.

Divorce was the end result.

Answer 3

I'm sure some try to work on it and others just divorce.  I guess it depends on how much their spouse meant to them in the beginning.  

Answer 4

It's time to move on.  I'm sorry.