I felt insulted by this social worker who said i on drug?

Question

my friends friends mother whos a 46yo fat hag social work accused me of being on drugs just cuz i have a lighter to play with and im 14 (btw tooked mines) she right away ask me "r u smoking?"

deeply inside i felt insulted & PISSED off and never want to c her again or should i complain

what can i do to feel better

Answer 1

It was a question, not an accusation.  It's also a natural question to ask when one sees a 14 year-old with a lighter.  It's her job to make sure that you're safe.  You seem to have a chip on your shoulder.  I suggest you brush it off and start looking at the big picture or you're going to have many more meetings with "Fat Hag Social Workers".

Answer 2

you're kidding, right?

Answer 3

Should have just told her you are a pyromaniac and could she tell you where she lives.

Answer 4

tell your friend ss to tell her that you only like playing with lighters...my boyfriend is the same way and he smokes nothing.sometimes he burns of string that unravels on his clothes

Answer 5

If you speak like you write, I'd say you're on drugs, too.

Answer 6

don't get so offended and pissed/defensive or she'll think it's b/c ur pissed that she found out ur secret! if ur calm from now on about it and just say in a calm tone "no, i don't do drugs, but i'm a guy- i like to put things on fire sometimes." then she should understand, but if not-then u can shrug it off and know for urself that ur not doing drugs.

Answer 7

This person is NOT your social worker, she is your friends mother.  She is under no ethical obligations to treat you like a client.  She would be under an ethical obligation to act if she thinks you are a danger to yourself or others (the hiding knives around the room might be an indication of this).

More likely she is concerned as a parent that you might influence her child.  If you are not using then simply be honest about this.

DA

Answer 8

huh?