I find it hard to stop thinking about it. Still makes me upset.?

Question

One of my favorite sayings is NEXT. I find I can not seem to follow my own advise. The other day while at the wave pool a handi cap male about 29 260lb grabed my infant grandaughters arm (8 months) and started shaking and trying to pull her from my daughters arms. My six year old son got between his big sister and the guy and pushed and kiked the guy untill his attention was him then he pushed my son down and let go of the baby to do so. I did not see it when it happen but heard about it when my son and daughter told me about the guy. My grandson who is 7 said I would do this and I would do that while my son was telling me what happen. I dismissed what he was saying because my daughter did not mention to me what my son had done.

It was not untill latter that nite at the gym my 12 year old grandaughter told me what my son had done and it was what he was telling me at the pool.

The guy let go because of my sons actions.

I feel bad for not acknowleging him at the time. I did final

Answer 1

You need to take a deep breath, compose yourself and repost this question in a rational, understandable format.

Answer 2

This is where it starts to stop making sense, I even had to perform it to understand the first part of your story, but here is where it doesn't make sense: My grandson who is 7 said I would do this and I would do that while my son was telling me what happen. I dismissed what he was saying because my daughter did not mention to me what my son had done.

It was not untill latter that nite at the gym my 12 year old grandaughter told me what my son had done and it was what he was telling me at the pool.

The guy let go because of my sons actions.

I feel bad for not acknowleging him at the time. I did final

PLUS, how is NEXT a saying? And what does that have to do with this "question"? If I wanted to I could put "I like Pink" infront of my answer, but I didn't because that would be weird.

Answer 3

I think you should go to your son tell him you are sorry for not believing him. Your son did a very brave thing. you should tell him how proud you are of him and reward him in some way.

Answer 4

Ok, It seems like you are still emotional about this as you are writing in segments. First, you should apologize to your son for not validating his concerns and praise him for what he did. Second, you should  keep a better eye on our kids especially if weird handicap men are approaching them. Just be thankful that your son and or grandson reacted the way they did. I am sure their actions kept your grandaughter off of Walmarts' missing children board.

Answer 5

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