I find it really hard to talk to the opposite s*x...?

Question

I get really nervous and stiff when talking to the opposite s*x... I cant even talk to the guy I like cause of this!!! What should I do???

Answer 1

Also i have this prob, but the only way out is to face this fear and do it anyway, though i know this i cant stand in front of any girl and start speaking and saying every thing i think.... i think it`s cause of our fears and listening to our ''doubting Thomas'' we all have in our heads :S

i know it doesnt help you, but at least i tried to tell you what happened to us :D

Answer 2

hey!

yer it is hard! i'm really close with the opposite s*x...but i find it difficult at times to approach or have a normal conversation with them....just relax remember there the same as you yet different in only a few ways.

JUST be your self, don't worry if you make mistakes the first few times but sooner or later you will get used to it..either way you will have to overcome this issue as you will be facing a lot of new experiences such as workforce etc and there will be people of the opposite s*x working with you and other events .... but pull yourself together and if you really want to talk with do something about it. It isn't hard just trust yourself..

well good luck

Answer 3

Its easy just open your mouth and talk..  

Answer 4

Talk to guys your not interested in, in ANY way. Then move on to guys that you are.  

Answer 5

hmm i have no clue.. maybe ur g*y

Answer 6

I'm the same with girls.It sucks ay.

Answer 7

Try more casual conversation. You need to get some experience here, and if you want to keep or even dump a boyfriend, you'll have to get some exercise with your jaw. Nothing is worse than a woman who can't spit it out. Makes a man smash his head up against a wall. Work on your basic interactions. Hello, coffee, bike riding, discussing something dumb like a fake problem with your car. Ask him if something looks good on you, or what do you think about this computer. Computer questions are good. "I'm interested in football, can you explain some to me?"  Ask for relationship advice on some fake dude. This way he thinks you are taken and just looking for his egotistical opinion.