I fired my personal trainer because i had feelings for him?

Question

even though there is an age difference i saw him at the gym and i acted as though i was looking as though i was staring a hole in him with no expression and he had no expression either.i saw him at the front desk and he was helping this other older lady i just walked out as quickly as i could i wonder if he noticed? i wanted to talk but im waiting for him to talk to me i wonder if he ever liked me

Answer 1

He's your TRAINER.  If he's a great trainer, keep him--the really great ones are few and far between.  If he's only OK and you kept him as a trainer because he was eye candy, then let him go.

Trainers are llike dentists, your doctors, etc.  They are nice to you but that doesn't mean they're smitten.  A good relationship can inspire you to work out a little harder (floss better, whatever) but it's not personal.  If he were smillten with you, he'd tell you and ask if you wanted another trainer.  You get into fairly close contact but that doesn't mean anything.  Face it--anyone who can get you to do ball squats has to be charming.  

Why don't you get a female trainer?  Mine is wonderful.  

Just tell the guy the truth--it's better than him wondering if he said something to offend you or if you've just gotten lazy.  

Answer 2

search some one else....why wasting time for him

Answer 3

Talk to him about how you feel, it can be that he likes you too!

Answer 4

What? Huh?

You married or single?

If single then talk to him. If married then you did the right thing to distance yourself from a guy you have feeling for.

Answer 5

you should be a vally girl s**t  

Answer 6

Nothing will happen if you two won't talk. What if he didn't notice? what if he has feelings for you but he thought you're not interested?

You should approach him if you want to know the answers.

Answer 7

I know you don't want to hear this, but I think you are probably making a big to-do over nothing.  First of all, you should have been up front with him about why you were dropping him in the first place.  Now, he is wandering around clueless.  And by walking past and ignoring him, you have just confused him even more.  You sound young.  I would just drop it.  No need to put up a barracade between the two of you next time you see him.  Be nice, smile, and say hello.  Don't purposely avoid him.  Sounds like you are really hoping for something to happen here.  But the way you are going about it, he will never reciprocate because you are treating him like the enemy.

Answer 8

I saw your beautiful eyes but you left so quickly I thought you were just another statistic! But if you REALLY want to talk, just come back and find me.