I fought my mom!!! HELP ):?

Question

This so wierd, read!!!

This is what happened, no lie.

Mom asks me to make her tea

I put tea in the microwave for 2 minutes

I went to my room to hang my shirt

Mom tells me to wait for her tea in the kitchen

I tell her wait let me hang up my shirt

she says no, come and wait for the tea in the kitchen

I say no again, let me hang up my shirt

She gets up, comes to my room, and holds her finger in front of my face, pointing.

She says when I tell you something do it

I asked her why couldnt I hang up my shirt

She slaps me and tells me I should listen, or something

Overiacting, I yelled and asked her why was she hitting me

She slaps me again, but this time i blocked it by pushing her hand

She then starts attacking me, Punching, hitting, slapping, pushing, and throwing me to the floor. In defense, I was trying to push her back.

I then started yelling why is she attacking me over some tea

She walks to my door, I was histerical and I pushed her out and locked my door

I was yelling why was she attacking me over some tea. I then stood by the door, while applying pressure to it, that way, If she broke in, I could use my weight and block the door. I phone my aunt and started telling her what was going on.

My mom breaks my door while I was leaning on it, and she started attacking me, I grabbed her, and threw her, against my tv. I was holding her against it so she couldnt start attacking me again.

I told her listen, im dont want to fight you, whats your problem?

She then overpowers me, and throws me to the ground. She grabs a broken handle of a broom that was in my room. I saw her and I was like oh c**p, Im gonna die

So I got as quickly as I could so I could hold her hands and she wouldnt be able to attack me.

I told her why is she fighting me, she said I should let her go so she can leave. I let her go, stupidly. She goes over to my computer, grabs the leg of a table that was broken during our fight, and SMASHES my $200 computer monitor. I was like no, why is she doing that. everything I do is on that computer, school projects, animations, old photos, games, programs, evrything that I had done for 4 years is gone now. She took sizzors and cut ALL my computer cords. Im left with nothing. My Pc Might still be working though, havent tested it yet.

But anyway, I was able to get out of the house and call my aunt again. She said I should tell my mom sorry and calm down. I told my mom sorry, and she is like "ok". Yet I was very mad at the whole situiation, I was crying. Well now, I used one of the other pc and wrote this. PLEASE GIVE ADVICE!!!!

Answer 1

Ok she might need help so get someone to help her get it also u should not have to say sorry but in the situation it was best to say to calm her down.but really get her help before it gets worse  

Answer 2

This is not a situation that can be answered with, well you should have done what she said... this is NOT normal behavior from anyone especially a parent. Your Mom definitely needs some counseling. I'm wondering if this behavior happens at other times?  If so talk to your aunt first, if she can't help maybe a counselor at school or many large churches have counselors you can talk to. If this behavior keeps up please don't just hide it, get some help. If this behavior is rare maybe talk to your Mom and see if she's under a lot of stress and if so how can you help?

Good luck....

Answer 3

I guess next time you'll do what she says, right?

Answer 4

i guess wat u can do now, is buy a card and flower, to show how sorry u are...

Answer 5

ummm.....is ur mum ok....she probably had a reason to go all pyscho and crazy.... dont worry this isnt ur fault....

maybe u should get someone she trusts to go get her to see a psychiatrist......i have fights with my mum but she never attacks me...isn't that against the law anyway...

we watched a video at school yesterday about women who go violent....mostly it's because of something that happened in their past, they have a mental problem or they've been keeping something bottled up......

has she ever been this violent before??? u should stay with ur aunt for a while if you don't feel safe around ur mum

Answer 6

wow all that over some stupid tea?that's child abuse talk to someone about it like a teacher or an older friend.

Answer 7

Is there a trusted adult you can stay with for a while? This doesn't sound like a safe environment. Parents don't normally attack their children over a cup of tea. If you don't have anyone to talk to you can call 1-800-448-3000. This is the Boys Town Hotline and they have trained counselors that can help you deal with your mom.

Answer 8

ask  here  why  ok

Answer 9

She's abusive, like the others said, she SHOULD see a psychiatrist, if not a psychologist. Seriously.

For your part, protect yourself, just do what she says for the time being.  

Answer 10

Can't really judge the situation with only one side of the story.  You instigated the whole situation by being less than respectful to you mother with your disobedience, but it's hard to imagine the scene escalating as you described it.

I think that families are special and we should do all we can to keep the peace and promote happiness.  That often means saying "I'm sorry."