I found my 10 year old son searching for p**n on web. How should I address this issue?

Question

I found out while going through history files looking for something. My web browser has parental lock so I guess he couldnt thru. Should I talk to him about this?

Answer 1

1) Leave him alone ...don't let him know that you know (this way you don't blow your inside line). Remember, he's still innocent enough for you to have found his tracks to begin with...and that's one of the first things that will go if you should have a weak moment and blow your cover! Besides, some considerable damage will occur if he's needlessly and brutally embarrassed (don't forget to stop and appreciate the fact that the kid won't be enduring the complications and hardships of being g*y)....he's in a school of sorts (as long as obsession doesn't set in) although 10 is early (but there's the computer age again!).  2) Balance what he already saw by being sure to humanize women as much as possible and dropping hints on consequences of various behavior etc. 3) Kill the computer.

Answer 2

Why is your 10 year old on the internet alone!?  You special and getting what u deserve.  How many news shows have to come on explaining that the internet is no place for a child to be alone.  Just take him down to hooker's row and let him pick a ho to play with.  U Stupid!

Answer 3

wake up - monitor his use of the web. Delete your history every day when you sign off.  p**n is not healthy for anyone.

Answer 4

just talk to him about this ask him y? maybe it was pier pressure u never know so just TALK!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

he's only ten and going through p**n.So when he's about 16 he proberly be losing his vaginity to a hooker.

But ask him first,cause when i was 12 i was ment to type in google but i typed in gole i think and what do you think came up.

Answer 6

Check out his friends .

Sometimes theres one or two who you REALLY dont want .

Talk to him and explain how p**n degrades women and men and makes s*x into something ugly.Even find some and watch it with him and point out how ridiculous some of it is .That is a REAL turn off.

Emphasise the good side and try to find him some thing that shows s*x without pornography.

Cut down on his web time and get him into physical sports to burn of all that energy.

Hey I tried that ! No p**n tho.

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Answer 7

Well DUH!!  Whip his butt and dont' let him get on the computer anymore!

What in the world has happened to people's common sense??

Answer 8

just talk openly dont make him feel like you caught him coz tht way he cud hide it from u and watch it at a friends place

he shld knw wast right and wrong and telling him that in a nice wya is the only way he will understand n mayb even think for himself

Answer 9

Yes you should talk to him about this. You need to sit him down and tell him EVERYTHING about s*x, the good, the bad and the ugly, make sure you leave nothing out. Tell him s*x is when a male inserts his p***s into the females v****a, and at first it hurts for the female because her hymen (the skin on the outside of the v****a is broken during penetration), then after a while the guy either ejaculates sperm into the condom or into the womans v****a. Make sure you tell him that while s*x may feel good it's a big responsibilty (risk of getting a female pregnant, contracting a std) etc and that s*x should be between 2 people who love and trust each other. Also tell him that if he curious about males or femals bodys that during puberty both male and female go through changes in their bodies; males have a growth spurt, testicles enlargen, pubic hair develops on the p***s and underarms, facial hair develops, voice deepens, the male is also able to ejaculate. For girls they also have a growth spurt, they develop b*****s, pubic hair on the v****a and they have a period. I would also recommend you get him a book that shows/explains the changes in body and what s*x is so he can read it if he's curious instead of going onto these p**n sites. Good luck

Answer 10

well you need to have the talk to him that happens probaly with every boy in there life time it might be his friends whatever you do don be mad at him let him know what it is about and that is it ok but he needs to wait

Answer 11

tell him way to go son, now your begining to uderstand what being a man is about.  in a few more years hes going to bang on of his hot teachers.  thats where u slap im high five and be like oh yeah every boys dream in my son.

Answer 12

I would talk to him.  Its natural to be curious.  If you ignore it and get mad, he will find out from other sources--and who knows what they will tell him.  Ask if he has any questions, and provide him the facts without judgment.  Whether you like it or not, kids will be curious, might as well meet it head on.

Answer 13

OF COURSE you should talk to him about it! Your son is curious; if he hasn't learned about s*x from you, he's probably heard about it from his friends and the TV. Whatever your feelings about pornography, you should have a general talk about s*x, and let him know what you think is appropriate for his age. Don't be angry with him, and don't accuse or punish him--you'll just make him feel alienated or embarrassed.

Answer 14

Yes, you should talk to him but don't make a big deal out of this. Boys that age are curious and if they were not...then I would worry.

Also, there's the possibility that what you saw was a mistake...like p**n sites have a way to creep out on you when you least expect it and are not looking for it.

Once, I was doing some research on an actor and got p**n instead of his biography!!!

The internet is pretty scary because I see some stuff that is pretty sick. I can't imagine being a kid and being exposed to that. Good for you that you have a lock to protect your kid from being traumatized.

Still nowadays, you have to talk to your kids about this, because it's out there now, if they have a computer with internet connection.

Also, even with your lock, your son could get access at a friend's house so talk to him about this.

Answer 15

it is important that a child should not be alone on the internet because of all the dangers and strangers out there on the net you should sit down with him when he is on the internet and make sure you got a good parental block too this is important if a 10 year old can get thru the one your using it must be bad so get a new one and next time your 10 year old son goes on the internet sit down with him and he won't look at p**n.

Answer 16

Why are YOU supervising him when he is on the internet?  YOU are responsible for your child, do your job.

Answer 17

well he's at that age were he's curious about that kind of stuff

just talk to him, answer any questions he has, but don't put him down. its natural, so he shouldnt be embarassed about it. try not to put him on the spot though

good luck!

Answer 18

No hes To young but he should be Grouded

Answer 19

maybe it was your spouse......

Answer 20

Of course you should talk to him about it. He is curious. Dont make it about him. Just a general conversation to open up a dialog. You also have to let it be known what is acceptable in your home. You are the parent.