I found naked pics on my son's cell phone... What would you do?

Question

Ok, the facts: My son is 15. I don't normally invade his privacy, but I took his cell phone away for a week (long story), and once I had it, I figured WTH, I'm his mom, I'm going to check... I found pics that one of his trampy ex-girlfriends sent him. Topless nude shots. (She's 15 also.)

So - I don't want to over-react. I've already discussed it with him. Now for her... Do I tell her parents? What would you do?

Answer 1

From parent to parent, the girls parents need to know and see the pictures for themselves. Sounds a bit harsh, but look this girl needs to have help. Sending pictures of herself is a sign of help, they need to do just that.

Answer 2

She is a child sending topless pictures to a 15 year old boy.  You bet I would tell her parents what she did.  And that you do not appreciate your son seeing pictures like that.  I would have your son get if off his phone.  It wasn't his fault that she sent the picture to him but it's his fault that he kept it on his phone. Unless she sent it after you took his phone away from him and you didn't here it ring.  

Answer 3

I would tell her mom, because she has a right to know.  If she's going that far they could be sexually active.  Maybe if you parents get involved now you might be able to avoid a possible unwanted pregnancy.  If he did not want you to see the pics, they should not have been on the phone.  

Answer 4

When you talked to your son about it, what was his reaction?  If you talk to her parents about it, what would you want to come out of that discussion?  Do you feel the girl is a bad influence on your son and that they may be engaging in s*x?  What would happen if you spoke to the girl about it?  

It's pretty normal for a 15 year old boy to want to look at nude pictures.  He's developing sexually and this is the time when he decides what his attitudes about s*x are going to be?  Think it through, decide what you want the out come to be and then do what feels right to you.  

Answer 5

If I were you, I would tell the girls parents. God knows who else is she sending pics like that to. It could be dangerous if she gave pics like that to the wrong hands.

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Answer 6

Your trampy son has naked pictures of a 15yr old girl on his cell phone. Don't go around blaming her, he's responsible for his behavior. What do you want to tell them? Hey my immoral son kept naked pics of your daughter to use to stimulate himself whenever he needed release? I think you better just be quiet about it.  

Answer 7

I would tell her mom.

Answer 8

dont tell her parents make it if she broke up with ur son just kill it at that spot dont chase after it just let it go from their but if she contnues to send pics then u have to talk to ur son to make her stop and if she wont then go to her parents with the phone