I found receipts from another women that bought my husband over $200 worth of clothing he said its innocent. ?

Question

After finding the receipts he told me that I was blowing it way out hand and she was a customer of his and it was a simple act of kindness on her part. What really got my blood boiling was that some of the items on the receipts were underwear! What married women buys a married man underwear? And what type of married man excepts them and hides it from his wife because (I would misunderstand the act) like I'm doing now. Could I please get some feedback on if I'm overreacting.

Answer 1

Sorry, but he must be lying!  I think she is seriously after your man!  Ask him if its okay if another man buys you clothes and undergarments--maybe he'll rethink his answer that is just innocent.

I cannot imagine ever spending $200 on men's clothing if we weren't dating or trying to sack him!

You may want to look for some more proof and then move on if he isn't man enough to own up to it!

Answer 2

NO NO NO You are not overreacting! I would ask my husband to meet her and let her know that she can take me shopping right now and spend $300 on my new clothes. If that doesn't sit well with hubby, He'd take me shopping :)

Answer 3

Oh yeah he is hiding something!  Get to the bottom of this one, sister!

Good luck!

Answer 4

he's not innocent

Answer 5

either it was his mom, sister, family member, he's innocent, or he's cheating

Answer 6

time to regroup..asking your husband to make some serious decisions about your marriage

Answer 7

No - you're reaction is correct.  How many men have had some woman buy them clothing out of kindness?  I think she bought them cause she wants to see him in them.

Answer 8

I don't think you're overreacting.  

I think that you if you feel the need to hide something from your mate so that they don't "misunderstand" then there's something to misunderstand.  If it was so innocent he could have told you about it right away.

And, no woman should be buying another woman's husband underwear.  

You are not overreacting.  Sit down and talk to your husband and ask him to be completely honest with you.  Ask him how he would feel if the situation was reversed.

I hope things work out.

Answer 9

yeah...that's some foul sh*t going on...... Get to the bottom of it.  Better yet, find out who she is and make him return the items to her.  Or, h*ll take the receipt, and the clothes and take them back to the store, and keep the money for you.

Answer 10

A man who ACcepts expensive gifts from another womAn is at least giving off the appearance of impropriety.  I think you should ask him to return the clothes.

Answer 11

He is for sure hiding something... so she is a customer what kind of work does your husband do? Try to get the truth out of him doing a little reverse psychology. Good Luck

Answer 12

definitely . which kind of cutomer if she?private i guess

Answer 13

You aren't overreacting.  I would get a counselor and if he refuses tell him you want a divorce.  He's cheating on you.

Answer 14

Your not overreacting.  Something is going on between them.

Answer 15

No you are not overreacting!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think somethings up,NO CUSTOMER WOULD BUY SOME ONE 200.00 WORTH OF CLOTHING.The sad thing is I hate whats going to happen next for you..The truth is going to come out,and your heart is going to break.I am so sorry.That pain is almost as bad as grief,Stay strong girl,find a true friend to rely on when this happens,My heart goes out to you...topsailangel

Answer 16

You are not overreacting......this is definitely wrong.....I would want to find out more about this, if I were you.

Answer 17

Not an over reaction at all...let your boss buy you anything other than a group lunch and your husband would have a heart attack...There is more to the story for at least one of them...Underwear please tell her to pay the mortgage if she wants to show her appreciation for a job well done.

Answer 18

she could just be a REALLY nice customer or she is a hoe good luck with that!!

Answer 19

I feel that it is completely inappropriate for married people to purchase gifts for people like that - unless there's an occasion, of course.  I would be absolutely LIVID if my husband accepted that kind of a gift from someone.  How dare that woman purchase clothing for your husband - and how dare your husband accept it!

Your husband should have said "Thank you very much for the gesture, but I'm afraid I'll be unable to accept this" and handed it back to her.

I do not feel you are overreacting at all - in fact, I worry about the state of your marriage if your husband thinks it's completely innocent and had to hide it from you in the first place.  You need to have a serious talk with your husband about the boundaries and guidelines of your marriage, and also about how strong and committed your marriage really is.

good luck.

Answer 20

Theyre sleeping together.  Or theyre going to in the near future.  

Answer 21

If you believe your husband on this, I got some ocean front property in Arizona I want to sell you.

Answer 22

Go with your Gut feelings. MM MM DO you have any man buying you clothing? No? Me Neither its not an innocent thing. I wonder what he'd say if the roles were reversed?

Answer 23

You are not overreacting.  He is lying.  It is exactly what you think it is

Answer 24

You are not overreacting.  In fact it may be worse than you imagined.  She may be dressing him up like a submissive wimp or a gimp.  If the underwear is the seat-less kind or have the fly in the rear (like the q****s wear) she may be jamming him with a strap-on.  One way to tell if that's happening on a frequent basis is if you can no longer hear his farts.

Answer 25

You are not overreacting on anything here because if it was innocent he would not be hidding anything from you. It sounds like he is up to no good because he did not have to keep this from you and give you the indication that there is more to the story here. I would keep a close eye on him and check his cell phone here for any strange numbers and find out more about this so called customer that bought him the clothing. I would be very suspicious about your situation if my husband came up with 200.00 worth of clothing from a woman out of nowhere to. A woman just does not purchase that amount of money for a man unless she is interested in him in more ways than him just being a great saleman. She is either one wealthy woman that has nothing to do but throw her money around but more than likely I would think she is buying his attention. If I were you I would get to the bottom of it with my husband because...if this is innocent no matter what he should not keep information like this from you.

Answer 26

If he has to hide it then he is doing something wrong

Answer 27

wow .. you are not overreacting! if it was so 'innocent' he would have not hide it from you!!!

Innocent or not thats just WRONG! cause he is married! what is the matter with men these days!

Would it be okay if it was the other way around?  A man buying you underwear and u accepting it and hiding it? one word .... wrong!

Answer 28

Tell him you know better it was payment for s*x, and then watch him try to stutter his way out of it.Then you tell him he is to REPAY her the amount for the clothes and tell her it was nice BUT inappropriate and he is to cut off contact with her on that level.

Tell him he can do this,or you are leaving.

Answer 29

If he has to hide it from you, it's not innocent.

Answer 30

Man if my husband ever brought some s**+* in my home especially some underwear that a women bought him and tried to play it off he would be hitting the door. If he had any sense he would have thrown that s**+* out before he got home what a dummy.