I get REALLY jealous! Help

Question

I think i get jealous allot! Like if a guy tells my friend shes hot ill get mad or if some guy tells me like hey your friends hot i wont tell my friend! I'm jealous of the girls at my school who are gorgeous and popular and I'm jealous of celebrity's!!!! PLEASE PLEASE help me try and focus on my self and get over this!

Answer 1

haha ommg me too =]

my guy friends call me the green monster

okay this helps me

i think about all the makeup those girls at school and celeberties wear and think about what they look like under all that makeup

it makes me think that they arent so pretty.

Answer 2

I answered your other question and the same applies here.

It is shallow and petty, and does not matter AT ALL in the grand scheme of life. In 10 years, you won't even remember what all of this drama was like. It won't even be on your radar. So my advice is to think about more important things, like education, true friends (who like you for you and don't cause drama), family, etc.

I know you are young and immature, and it will take time to grow out of it. But trust me, you will. This is not a big deal like you are making it out to be. Good luck.

Answer 3

There is such a thing as personality.  

Answer 4

aha,you got a personality prob.why dont u worked on how to be da hottest..it is not about ur looks,but ur performances..no need to be jealous,maybe u have something that others dont have..umm?

Answer 5

Being jealous is common in your teen years. It's because you aren't fully matured and haven't learned self confidence yet. Over time, your jealousy will dwindle; trust me. I am 30 and I still get a little jealous, but nothing like when I was 15 or even 21. Females in general are a bit jealous and in constant competition with each other. There will always be a cuter, thinner, sweeter girl out there for you to be jealous of. It's when you learn to focus on your own qualities that you begin to let go of most of that insecurity. But this takes time and life experience. Also, at your age, guys/boys tend to say stupid things out loud without thinking, like "she's hot" or "your friend is hot", without considering your feelings. They are immature and truly don't know any better yet. They don't do it to hurt your feelings; they just don't realize yet that it's rude to comment about one girl to another girl. But they do learn over time. Don't worry; you just have some growing up to do and so do the guys.