I get depressed about not having someone there for me, but...?

Question

I get really low about the fact that i don't have anyone to love or to love me back. i've been talking to my mum about it and she said that it's an important year for me and i don't need a guy to c**k it up for me, but i get stressed out the the depression that i get from not having someone adds to it and makes me fall harder... should i listen to my mum or go against it?

Answer 1

please listen to your mom.. seriously moms know what is best for you. if shes a really good mom she is right believe me.

I'm 21 and i don't have a boyfriend i don't need a guy to make me happy, i don't need their games and bull **** I'm happy right now with out a boyfriend, i want to enjoy my single life with friends go out and have fun, you don't need a guy to make you happy. don't know how old you are but if your really young don't worry about it go out have fun have a good time with friends and I'm sure that day will come for you just give time its time, and believe me when i say if your out looking for someone your not going to find him, and when you not looking there they are, know what i mean...try not to stress about it and listen to your mom : )

Answer 2

Sounds like you are either in high school or college maybe? Well, please take it from as I am 33 years old and the mother of a 12 year old girl. I started out in college and was side tracked when I met my daughters father. We got married, I left college to be the wife and then mother. Well, when we divorced I had no college education and now at 33 I am back in college. Its a lot harder in school when you are 33 and have a child. So, if I were you I would find something else to put your efforts into. However, I do remember being younger and I know that you will do what you think is right for you. Either way, I wish you the best!!

KC

Answer 3

listen to your mom. you have to be there for yourself and be independent. when you can do that, maybe someone will go find you. :)

Answer 4

how old r u?

sumtimes it depends on ur age n while teenagers dont wanna hear that it's the truth.

it also depends on edukation,lifestyle etc.

sumtimes ur too young to worry about bein in a relationship;other times u should be fokusin more on ur edukation rather than a relationship; often times ur kurrent lifestyle n the stress or problems one may be going thru kan prevent sum1 from gettin involved.

OR u jus havent found that RIGHT 1 yet n u should jus let it take its toll.

till then

how YOU doinnn?!

Answer 5

It's okay that you want someone to love or to be loved ^-^, but do remember that your friends and parents care for you and love you, and I'm sure you love them too (: I think you should listen to your mom about that you don't need a guy, but if you truly want someone and you've found what you were looking for, then go for it! :DDDD

Answer 6

Listen to your mum.  She's there for you.  You only fall harder because you make yourself fall.  Stay strong and stick by your mum!

Girl power-just kidding I understand you're an adult, but mum still has the best advice.

Answer 7

Listen to your mom,,, She is concerned about your future were you are just concerned about today,,,,  But if it will help you,,,I will be your secret admirer from afar ,,  Good Luck and tell your mom that you love her,, she needs to hear that from you,,,,

Answer 8

You need to make some gal pals. Never go looking for a guy when you're depressed or desperate. Join groups/organizations that are of interest to you so you can meet persons of similar hobbies/likes/sports, etc.

Answer 9

get involved in sumthing!

Answer 10

hello lovey