I get made fun of at school. what do I do???

Question

Okay so I dance, 12 hours a week at a competitive dance company, im really good and get nearly 1st place every competition, I get all the girls, but the guys call me g*y!! It makes me sad, and feel stressed out, but I try not to show it, I don't want to talk to my parents about it, and I don't wanna go to a counselor, cause I did that all year last year....and my chest starts to hurt really really really badly, so I just wanna go to the clinic to get pain medication, but if I go, all the guys will think im going there to cry and stuff, so it just starts to hurt worse, and then I can't consentrat in class...

Please help me, please?!?!

Answer 1

Some kids can be really cruel.  Only you know your own sexual orientation (and even if you were g*y, you wouldn't want to be teased about it).  I can imagine that this is really upsetting.

However, I worry about you NOT going to the clinic if you are having chest pains.  Unless you have injured yourself, this could be really dangerous, and you absolutely need to go to be checked out medically.  Pain medication doesn't seem like the appropriate solution to chest pains, and you really need to be examined.  You could die if you fail to do so, and that would be far worse than being teased.  

I wish I could give you an answer to how to get the guys to stop teasing you, but they are immature, and probably won't stop for a year or two.  At some point, they will grow out of it.  In the meantimes, stay strong and know that you are the better person.  You have a talent AND are nicer to others.  It won't make the teasing go away, but if you realize that they are the ones with the problem, not you, it will help a little.

Answer 2

u can do sumthing better than them they r jealous

Answer 3

Hello! :]

First off, congradulations at having a great hobby and doing so well and being very dedicated, thats awesome!

Dont listen to what those immature brats say. I am so sorry they are being mean. Unfortunately, in our world some male dancers are g*y and guys think guys doing something like dancing is g*y for a male because its mostly a girl thing. but s***w them! it makes you happy. you get all the girls. when they see the girls hanging all over you how can they call you g*y? i would tell your parents PLEASE or see a counselor, i think you will feel better. find some friends who have the same dancing interest as you--it might help. i hope your pains go away and dont feel bad, you didnt do anything wrong. ok? have a good day ! :)

Answer 4

dude dancings not g*y i dance and im a guy well i used too but still they dont have a rigth to make u feel bad just tell the teacher or hang out with the girls not with the guys

Answer 5

i think they may make fun off you not because your a dancer but because u get all the girls and there jeaouls of you because of it so they make u fell bad just inogre them for a while and theyll stop just keep doing what your doing tusrt me

hope this helps

elizabeth

Answer 6

they are jealous

girls love talented guys  

Answer 7

HAHA well........ ill just put it like this.... all the guys that make fun of you are just hating and probably jelous of u!!!  

Answer 8

I'm sorry.  Kids can be so cruel.  The guys are just jealous because you get all the girls.  Don't let them get to you.  Try and ignore them.  It is so great that you do something you really love.  There is nothing wrong with a boy who dances.  I think it is great.  Don't stress about it.  If the boys at school see that it gets to you they will never leave you alone.  You should go to the counselor at school.  It might help.  Don't let this affect you socially or academically.  Tell them that they must be the ones who are g*y because you are the one who gets all the girls.