I get nervous when my mom talks to me about my virginity!?

Question

She's always saying things like, "I am so proud that you are almost 18 and still a virgin..."

I am still a virgin, but for some reason I feel very nervous/panicky when she talks about it. I also feel that I am sending her the wrong message and making her think that I am not a virgin by doing this.

Any ideas as to why I get like this?

Answer 1

You get like this because discussing anything even remotely sexual with your parents is (or at least should be) uncomfortable.

Don't worry about the message you're sending her; just know that your virginity is your own business, and whether you choose to lose your virginity or not, your mom will always be able to be proud of you for something. :) That's how moms are.

Answer 2

You might feel nervous/panicky because you know that some day you will lose your virginity.  You worry about the day that you will be telling her that you are no longer a virgin.

Answer 3

its natural... everybodys like that with their parents... its uncomfortable to talk to your parents about any kinda subject on s*x. Its normal to just feel weird, you're not the only one.

Answer 4

The thought of me and my parents talking about s*x makes me cringe u need to tell her that u are defiantly are a virgin and u will lose it when u feel comfortable its your life and not hers she has to understand that its natural for us to get all uncomfortable talking about the birds and the bees to our parents its natural just be yourself she is ur mom she had the same with her mom its natural

Answer 5

HI,

May be .. you are really nrevous . and you are afraid that you might loose your virginity anytime

and you might fail her

...............just chillax and iam so proud that you are still waiting

cheers

Answer 6

Everybody gets nervouus when their parents talk about virginity.

Maybe your just not too comfortable about talking about "it".

So theres nothing wrong about thaat.

'Just take it easy. Thats what mums are there for.

Answer 7

psh! you get nervous about your mom?! i used to get s*x talks from my dad! and i'm a 20 yr. old girl (but then again, me and my dad are pretty close) every time i come home from college he always asks, but i lie and tell him i'm one anyways. but anyways, just tell your mom you get uncomfortable when she talks about it. its normal to feel uncomfortable.

Answer 8

it's normal.

I have a bad relationship with my mom and she always suspected me of lieing. I felt like you do when she talked about stuff like this and she would always say you are having s*x or you are doing drugs. even though I was never doing any of those things. I got around it by training my self to react like that to everything so it was no different if I did lie or not so she could never tell but that is really not a good thing.

Answer 9

Nobody wants to talk to their mom about s*x! Trust me, you aren't alone.

Answer 10

tell her you're going to have to lose your virginity just so she'll stop talking about it god!

Answer 11

tell her to stop

Answer 12

I think you speak to your mom politely that you feel uncomfortable when she tells all this things.Moreover i think she just wants you to make you conscious all the time by saying that you are still virgin and should retain it without bring a bad name for your parents.

Answer 13

Your 18 and you still get panicky about that? Grin and change the subject really fast, would probably be the best way to deal with it.  

Answer 14

Well, it just gets awkward when parents talk to you about those sort of things. Most people anyways. So don't worry, nothings wrong. :)

Luckk

Answer 15

My mother tells me to loose it already. Psh.

But yeah, just tell her that she's making you uncomfortable.