I get scared to be rejected. This is a very big weakness in me. How do I overcome this problem. Please tell me

Question

For an example, I have been selected for some group activity like to do some project work on certain topic

I put my whole and soul effort to reach the target for that purpose I am also praised but when results are out I am no where others take the credit.

Answer 1

I think we all fear rejection in a way.  Fear no one will like us for who we are, fear no one will pick us over someone else.  If you think about it, we all have rejected others in our lives and get rejected back the same.  I'm sure you decide who you want to hang out with from one day to the next and you reject the others.  Rejection is neither good nor bad.  Just look at rejection as a way of Life.  Because that is exactly what it is.  Hope I helped. :)

Answer 2

You are honest, can work efficiently, can achieve your targets, apparently know your abilities... it seems alright. But problem lies with your presentation i think. You are not able to present efficiently.

What you can do now is not  too hard. Be clear in your thoughts & be expressive.

I suffered the same problem almost through out my educational years but i dont know how, but i started expressing my self , my point of views. I started this thing only trying to copnveye my point of view. I never tried to persuade anyone for any thing  i just worked with the idea that irrespective of results, i just will let him/her/them know my point of view (what i think) and things started getting alright. So be positive & move on with chin-up!!!!!

Answer 3

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