I got GROUNDED for this......do you think this is unfair?

Question

My parents grounded me from he computer and my cell phone for I don't even know how long because they found out that I snuck out one night to meet a guy friend. It was after midnight and I was gone for only an hour and a half and we live in a very safe area. I am almost 15 do you think they are being unfair? Does anyone else sneak out? Thanks!!

Answer 1

No.

Answer 2

Nope, I don't think it was unfair. Their house, their rules, and what you were doing was still sort of dangerous.

Answer 3

I think that is perfectly fair. If my kid snuck off I would be PISSED.

There are so many things that COULD have happened to you that didn't. You could have been arrested for breaking curfew, you could have been injured, you could have been robbed, the list goes on.

While I don't doubt that you weren't doing anything dangerous, your parents are grounding you because they are scared to death for your safety and sneaking out increases your chances of doing something or being involved in something unsafe.

It is not nice to do things like that to your parents. They deserve to know where you are at all times.

Answer 4

you, i think, personally got off lucky.

you're 15 and definitely shouldn't be sneaking out to meet guys. And being parents, they thought it was from the internet, so they took away what they thought was the culprit.

Keep in mind they just want to protect you from anything they possibly can, they aren't being mean, trust me.

Most parents would beat their kids for sneaking out, as the dark holds dangerous things.

Answer 5

If that's all that happened, you got off lucky.  If I was to sneak out after midnight to meet anyone, girl or guy, the least of my worries would be losing cellphone or computer.

Unfair, no, not at all.  Bad things can happen even in good/very safe areas.   I live in a gated community in a very good and very safe area and I still know there are dangers.

Answer 6

it's not unfair at all you go off lucky girl

Answer 7

Think if you had a child and she snuck out after midnight. Wut would you do as a parent?

Answer 8

Well I can see where they are coming from.  You probably shoudn't have done it and they probably think you did something with him.

Thats just how parents are.  Just try to be good and do what they ask, and it will hopefully be done with soon.

Answer 9

I mean yeah it's unfair.  But compared to most parents, including mine, its very very fair.  

Seriosuly you go off lucky!