I got a question for the girls..... and it would help alot?

Question

ok my question is... if your friend (one of your girl friends) was going out with a guy and you found out that she was cheating on the guy would you tell the guy?... or would you let her cheat on him?

Answer 1

Is the guy one of your friends too?  If not, then I would say stay out of it.

Answer 2

if it was me, i'd be ripping it through her!!! why don't you talk to her about it? ask her stuff like, how would you feel if you found out someone was cheating on you? its not good. trust me on that one!! to me i believe that you treat others the way you want to be treated, so tell her that too! if you want to be cheated on, cheat on him and suffer the consequences. another thing i did which also showed how good of a friend they are, is tell them that you don't want to have anything to do with them if they choose to act this way. relationships come and go but friends always stick together

Answer 3

I would confront the girl first.  Tell her that what she is doing isn't going to make the situation better, and it isn't fair to her boyfriend, nor to the guy she is cheating on with.  Tell her that if she doesn't do the right thing, you will.  On the other hand, this really isn't your business in a way; but I understand the friend loyalty deal too.  You risk ruining your friendship with the girl, but at the same time; do you really want to be friends with a girl who lacks the morals to cheat on a poor guy?

The reason why you don't want to talk to the guy first is; first, he might not believe you.  Secondly, he might think you are trying to break them up.  Thirdly, you might lose your friendship with both the guy and the girl if things go sour.

Good luck and I hope this helps!

Answer 4

i would confront HER telling her its wrong. and tell her that your going to tell him unless she tells him and stops. you need to be strong and tell her its NOT cool. dont go to the guy unless youve gone to her first so she knows its coming and doesnt hate you guts more