I got divorced last year and am trying to find myself again. I need some support saying it's gonna be okay?

Question

It is going to be okay right? This single life is going to be okay right>? will i ever be able to trust again? is it possible for me to be just single and not be involved in another relationship again in my life. i guess i am just doing all the thought racing in my head.

Answer 1

divorce is hard on everyone and you are no exception but as a person who has been there and done that you will be ok I promise. With each new sunrise you will feel better about you and in knowing that this is what was meant to be for you right now but not forever.  You will find it within yourself to do right for yourself and no matter what you will not be alone you have friends and family for support . As for thoughts racing threw your head put yourself back out there either take more stock at work or find a friend that has not been in your life for awhile.  You need time to heal before you worry about starting another relationship when you are ready you will know until then start doing things for yourself that make you happy and the rest will fall into place.

Answer 2

I have been through/and are going through the same thing. I say have been through b/c my husband of 2 years has left me so many times I can't keep up with it. And the reason I say are going through is b/c my husband recently left me AGAIN!!!!! So, take it when I say I know how you feel. The only thing that makes me feel better is reading the Bible and leaning on God. Honestly. B/C God can see the whole picture, he knows what is in store for you. And if he is closing one door that means he is opening a bigger and better for you. I don't know that I would get back out there. But I would focus on going to church and making new friends. In time all of that will come. I have a lot racing through my head too, as a matter of fact all the time. But when I get down and discouraged I always remember that God is going to do something awesome for me. I hope this helps you. I feel your pain and I will be praying for you.

Answer 3

Hey man. When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. You put too much of your identity in your partner and now you don't know who you are. What a nice blessing to be able to find you before you lived another 40 years and didn't know. You are going to be great.

Hit the gym, run, work out, see movies, go to parties, hang with friends that are couples, friends that are single, sign up for some classes at a college and learn how to golf. Whatever. Just break your routine. If you want to attract loneliness you will. If you want to attract a mate you will.