I got hurt in a fight today, i dont want it to happen again?

Question

I got smashed by 2 guys 1 year older today. My mate was there too but it happend so fast. im only 14, my nose got broken and i got a black eye. I just want to make sure this dont happen again . These guys were sorta big but i still put up a fight. I feel as tho where i am atm in my life, i need to have some sort of skill in fighting because atm im getting hurt. today i spent 2 hours at the hospital. pretty stupid and i got suspended for a week.

Answer 1

Avoid them or apologize if you were the one that provoked them.

Answer 2

depends where and when this happened, if at school, try to ignore these guys, take a different way to class, don't look them in the eye, if you want to learn to fight its a great sport and will keep you fit, ask your father to teach you or to take you to someone who teaches, just try to stay out of trouble that's the only thing i could say really.

Answer 3

Well what a friend you have thats dirty but well just stay clear of them or get some real friends to go back at them  

Answer 4

dude first off i feel sorry for you and ive done boxing and ive done karate frankly karate is just  way better my boxing instuctor was pretty much "get him get him punch him"  all about offense my karate instructr is very tough on me pushes us all to our limits but in the long run its grate you become unbelievably strong im the strongest of all my friends and im the youngest and smallest karate teaches you to be defensiv (self defense) its all about preventing fights (never starting them) boxing is just about fisinhing the fights im not saying karate dont tell you how to finish anything either it takes someone about 6 years to become a black belt and it was worth every minute of training but if you do get in fight

just remember TRAIN HARD FIGHT EASY!!

Answer 5

You gotta get strong and let them muthafu*kers know you can take them down anytime you feel like it. You gotta get the ground beneath your feet partner. You got to be ready to show down, stand up and die for tha respect. Otherwise you aint nothing. Try some weight lifting, martial arts or get some tank frends to take em down. I'm wit u the whole way partner!

Just call on me!

Answer 6

u should try to make them feel that ur a ***** like ur scared.. and get some more friends...then, beat the h**l out of them ;)

gd luck

Answer 7

just take up boxing or try to teach urself to throw punches,i learned to fight by experience,the mroe you do it,the better you get,stay clam when you fight,going into a fight in blind rage will mess up ur thinking,you gotta use ur head when you fight.if you got a punching bag,practice on that.otherwise take up some kinda of martial arts.boxing,kickboxing,muey thai,mma are great.

Answer 8

The best tip is to not get into these situations in the first place.

Answer 9

BOXING is one thing, but boxing has rigid training. Meaning the person who will engage in this kind of either sports or for permanent hobby must include sleeping/eating the right food, plus exercise etc. I think the only thing you want from boxing is the style of finishing off bullies and thugs just like the 2 guys you met, but this is not the idea of boxing. Boxing is not only knowing how to fight but keep the body and the mind fit and health.

THE ONLY THING you want is to defeat guys just like the two who beat you so badly. REVENGE is another thing. WHAT YOU NEED is not boxing, but some sort of martial arts thing like kung fu or the one which they call JET-KUNEDO popularize by the late Bruce Lee. You have seen them on television or movies like the crane, tiger, mantis etc. this is their discipline and different style the idea is not to defeat opponent but to clear the mind off fighting, just like the philosophy of the late Bruce Lee, the art of fighting is without fighting. DO YOU GET THE IDEA. I think not. The idea is if you can avoid fighting much better but if not then you have to show them your stuff but right now you got none I presume.

Seen the movie KICKBOXER, Jean Claude Van d**n, there is a phrase there which said 'if your enemy do not humble themselves then destroy them'...he was taught by a Thai master. So I suggest you find the style you like best and study them with others in the gym in order to provide protection not the idea of showing off what you got, because as they say 'true master must show humbleness' if you are arrogant and show off then you are not worthy to study them.

Answer 10

martial arts?

they can show you how to defend yourself proper, but it's not about pickin fights either. whoever picks fights ought to get their face smashed

Answer 11

next time u put in a fight, just bring a knife and stab them. or just train in a taekwondo class or judo so that you can protect and know some skills.,but do this only if you are not the one who seek fight because you may harm others.,just protect yourself.,don't use your skills in a bad way.,its not good having a fight with a wrong opponent.,just be cool., and next time,give them a big shot so that it won't happen again., :p

Answer 12

you should take up boxing. thats what im going to do.

Answer 13

try looking up fighting techies on the internet,it worked for me!

Answer 14

Keep up the boxing, and maybe take some other form of martial art class on the side. Also never forget the number 1 rule of any fight, Fight to kill your opponent, not injure, If you're only trying to disable or injure your opponent you're more likely to not hit as hard when it was vital and could have ended the fight, likely getting killed or severely injured yourself. Maybe look into buying a stun gun if you have a way of purchasing things online, Amazon has the small fry rechargeable 1 mil volt ones for only $39 right now, or look into buying an expandable baton, whip that thing out and hit your attackers in the head,arms,genitals,wherever - until they back off or stop breathing.