I got involved with a married man.......?

Question

I made a mistake of having a friendship with a married man which led to adultery. Since we got intimate, he dropped has been avoiding and it seems like he lost interest.

I have been so miserable and devastated the thought on not seeing him or talking to him is really hard on me. I feel like the world is crashing on me. I also miss him terribly.

So do you think my misery is karma?

Am I getting mine?

Answer 1

DEFINITELY KARMA!!!!  You said it yourself, you committed adultery. Here's the best way to stop thinking about him because he is obviously taking care and loving his FAMILY now...think SIN and h**l!!!

Answer 2

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. It's hard enough when a guy has a girlfriend but when he is married it is virtually impossible. I know you are going to hate me for saying it but you have to move on. I know it is hard but it's important that you do. Married men are only looking for an adventure and then when they've done the deed they either feel guilty and discontinue it or they carrying on seeing their lover on the sly. Either way, the victim suffers. You need to find someone who is unattached so that they can really love you. Go out with your friends, have some fun and then your happiness will attract a new man.  Don't waste your time thinking about him that is just negative energy.  Good Luck girl.  

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear that. I don't think it's karma. It's just that you got yourself involved in a situation that has no way out... He's married and there's only so much he can give you. It seems you put your love in the wrong place. So I know it will hurt a lot, but you have to be strong and face the consequences of your actions.

Answer 4

You got yours, didn't you? You made the decision, and now you are living with the consequences. I don't feel sorry for you at all.