I got my girlfriend pregnant and shes 14, thats my age, what should i do?

Question

I got my girlfriend pregnant and shes 14, thats my age, what should i do?

Answer 1

tell you parents, and pray that your girlfriend does the right thing and has an abortion.

Answer 2

Step up and be a man. You helped make this baby, you help take care of it. You also need to sit down with your parents and hers, and possibly all of you together and figure out what the best course of action is.  

Answer 3

What is wrong with you people answering.  Telling him "You're too young to have s*x," well apparently not.  He already did it so why are you lecturing or telling him that?  

Tell your parents and her parents.  

Answer 4

don't be a jerk and run away. Don't leave her to do it all by herself....it takes two to make a baby remember that. She deserves your support, love, understanding and patience right now. Just be there for her. Be honest with your parents, they will found out eventually. The more you are a stand up guy the easier it will be for all involved. Understand she will be moody and upset alot....don't give up. She needs you and you need her to get through this. Be strong good luck

Answer 5

Face the consequences....

But you are WAY too young to be having s*x!

Protect yourself, not only from pregnancy but from STDs.

Answer 6

Hey I am 15 and just got my gf preg we r planing on having the kid ! I am scrrd but way happy ! Its hard 4 us cuz she lives 270 miles away ! Wut ever u do u fu*kn stay with that girl its ur kid to . Now that u know u need to tell ur mom and dad together and hers  

Answer 7

Tell your parents and stop having s*x, your WAY too young!!

Answer 8

Hey I'm 14 to I have s*x and I think I might be pregnant and I'm 14

Answer 9

Well first off, you shouldn't be having s*x at 14!!

What you should do is to tell your parents. You are still a minor and cant not make a lot of decision without your parents.

So the best thing to do is to tell you parents.

Good Luck

Answer 10

You both need to talk to your parents and figure out what should be done.

Answer 11

Ok, well its a good sign that you worded that "I got my gf pregnant", it means you know that you are just as much responsible as her.  

Now heres what you should do.  If you havnt already told her parents, you should do so right away.  Go with her and dont take no for an answer if she trys to tell you she wants to do it on her own.  Although they are going to be upset and mad, they will respect you more in the long run if you are there holding there daughters hand telling them together.  After you have told her parents its time to tell yours.

Second thing you need to do is take your GF to the doctors.  You should go to every appt with her and be there for her.  Ler her know that you care and that you are going to help out.  Dont mistake this for having to stay with her forever though.  Dont worry about that right now.  Hopefully you will want to, but you can cross that bridge when you get there.  For now just know you need to be there for her and the baby.  

The last thing to remember is to be a gentlemen.  Dont let people at school make fun of her, or anything like that.  Make sure she stays in school too.  You should start talking about what you want to do.  Maybe adoption?  Maybe not.  Talk talk talk.  Communication is the key here.  Listen to both sets of parents as they usualy know what they are talking about.  

Good luck with everything!!  I know you will be a stand up guy thoughout this situation!    

Answer 12

At 14 you are both definitely both too young to be able to properly raise a new life.

I would speak to both your's and her parents.

You all need to sit down and come up with a good plan.

Don't wait too long to tell your parents, the sooner everyone knows, the better, and the sooner you tell them, the more time to think about all of the possible options and what would be the best for everyone, especially the baby.

Good luck.

Answer 13

first of all you did not get your girlfriend pregnant you both did it!! do not beat yourself up cause it can happen to anyone, i know your young and sorry to say but FAR to young to be parents,im 24 with 2 kids and their father is 24 aswell,we are building our house and im so stressed, i can not even begin to imagine how i would have dealt with being pregnant at 14, your girlfriend is ten years younger than me and so are you, all i can say is you have to talk to your parents both of you together, you got in to this together so deal with it together, and of course they are going to be angry, dissapointed and most of all as scared as you both are as to what is going to happen.  And if they do react like that or worse its because their mad and care about you both deeply, it should all settle but im afraid i cant help much more as you are both so so young,and only you and your parents can deal with this, best of luck and i wish you all the best.xx and one more thing do NOT listen to anyone on here talking about abortion or any c**p like that, you made your own choice to have s*x which is minor so dont take anyone elses advice on here about aborting your child, unless its what you both want. its both your disicions and dont be brain washed by anyone. but do take good advice even if it seems harsh, it might be the best critisism you ever got!!xxxx

Answer 14

well this is why 14 year old's don't need to have s*x. they don't know how to use protection properly.

all you can do is tell your parents and be prepared to be a parent for the rest of your life.

if you didn't want to have a baby stop having s*x

Answer 15

Tell your parents.  They can advise you from there.  Personally, I think adoption would be the best decision.  14 is too young to raise a child (and too young to have s*x!), but the baby shouldn't be punished for your mistake.

Answer 16

dude before i say anything i gotta say

GOD d**n UR A PIMP!!!! IM 15 AND HAVENT GOTTEN ****!!!

i would say  eather raise the baby and set a good influence or next time use a condom or even better!.....

Practice holding ur *** in so u dont e********e so early  

Answer 17

You thought you were old enough to have s*x, now you have to suffer the consequences. Sorry, no sympathy here.