I got this phone call, he was drunk, and now im just nagging...?

Question

theres this boy im into.

and we talk alot, we dated before and i reallllly like him.

but see, i knew he liked me and i was just waiting till i was ready to be with him to tell him i like him too.

but he called me just a few minutes ago.

and hes like..

"look, i like you alot, and i dont want anybody else,and you should be with me.."

"id give up drinking for you, and smokeing, and your just...you know! i want to be with you as much as possible."

i told him ill call him back when hes not drunk and he said if i did he wouldnt be totally honest with me and he wanted to talk to me on the phone at that moment so he can tell me exactly how he feels. but i just didnt feel right, he wasnt acting normal and he wasnt being himself.

so i got off the phone with him and told him id call him back 2maro.

my friend said when i call 2maro i should act like it never happend.

but i dont want him to think that he shouldnt have told me or he ruined something between us.

and i should be happy he told me, but he was drunk.

if it was you, what would you do?

i know this isnt really like a question, more like a story, but yeah, just anything you guys woulda done differently? think i handled it wrong?

Answer 1

no i think you did fine... even though people are truthful when they're drunk   it is better to have that kind of serious conversation sober haha. Just call him and be like "well you were saying some pretty interesting things last night..." and let him take it from there. Be friendly about it though so he doesn't get the wrong idea.

Answer 2

I think you handled it exactly right. If he was drunk, it depends on whether or not he'll remember the convo tomorrow. Either he feels the same way sober and will tell you again he truly cares about you or he'll shy off and not mention it.  Does he usually  drink this much? That's a bad sign to begin with.