I guess i have "changed"?

Question

my best friend kind of stopped hanging out with me.

she said that my ex boyfriend "really messed me up" and she misses how good of friends we use to be.

i still cry a lot because i miss him, and i notice that i can't really have fun in social situations anymore. i like to be alone a lot, i try really hard but its like i can't have fun anymore.

it sounds pathetic. i really don't want to be a "debbie downer" anymore, its been like three months since the breakup.

how can i get over this?

Answer 1

Try focusing on happy thoughts and spending time with your family. If you feel it's getting worse maybe you should ask your doctor for a Prozac subscription.  

Answer 2

If it's been three months, you need to move on. It's hard, but it's not worth wasting your life over someone who isn't even there, by giving up on the rest of the people that are. Focus on what you do have in your life, not what you don't.

Answer 3

You are suffering from depression.  Ask your doctor to refer you to a good psychologist or counselor.  You will get through this, but sometimes we all need some help getting over a big disappointment.  Take care and good luck!