I had a REALLY BAD FRESHMAN 1ST DAY!!!!!!!!?

Question

I had an awful 1st day of 9th grade. I was totally underdressed, my hair uncurled into a ratty frizzball, I was shaking uncontrolably and developed some kind of twitchy eyelid, during lunch I realized I was sitting in the loser/burnout section, and it was an all around effed up day. How can I feel more confident with what I wear and how I act in class? I'm just so nervous! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 1

oh god!! what makes u think that's awful?? ur fine...there's no problem at all! just be urself and wear appropriate stuff but really those things dont matter when ur nice to people.

be urself and make loads of friends!

good luck!

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Answer 2

aww its okay. tomorrow is a brand new day! so start fresh. and if your going to curl your hair make sure to have a STRONGGG hair spray, if not then stick to straightening it. and if you cant straightin it, try washing it and then applying gel/mousse to it.

for clothes:

well what's in style right now is skinny jeans, muffler scarfs, flats, vests, plain colored shirts, ....you can find this at any mall, forever21 is my favorite place to shop.  

& in class just act like you know what your doing; & try not to be too nervous, i mean whats the worst that could happen, TALK to people, be social! a lot of people might be talkin about america's best dance crew and who won, since that show is a big hit w/ teens & the hills, many girls watch that. or just anythingg, because i dont know which state you live in or whatever is going on over there, talk about school activities & open up to people!  

Answer 3

look hun you need to carm down i'm a member contact with you and i look at all your questions from what i've picked up on u have a very low self esteem so try as hard as yhou can to get it up and i'm very sorry to hear that you had a bad day just think that things can only get better  

Answer 4

I didn't have a very good first day either, and I'm a teacher! That's the nature of "first days." It'll get better. You care, so you'll notice the things that make it better, and as you do them, it WILL get better. Keep a smile on your face, laugh easily, and be kind to the others. That will draw others to you, and what you have on or your hairstyle won't matter much at all. Have a great year!

Answer 5

hello dear.. see what is happend its not good but its over now ... but dont thik about the past.. now think about the future.. be regular to class give concentration .. and study well all the best for ur future.. and dress neatly...

Answer 6

don't think of dressing as something you can overdo or underdo, just wear what you feel is comfortable and as long as it isn't outlandish people won't pick you out for it. many uppclassmen already understand that what you wear to school doesn't matter so you should learn that soon as well.

as for you hair maybe you could invest in a straightener if it worries you that much. for frizz i use an anti-frizz gel from regis but you can find any brand at target or something and it will help. they aren't expensive either.

and just because you sat in the loser section on the first day doesn't mean you're going to be there the rest of your life. to make friends in class just try to find some common ground with your classmates, you're all freshmen so you should have similar things to talk about. try to make a funny story about sitting alone and turn it into a joke, you'll come off as confident and charming. personally whenever something embarrassing happens to me i always laugh it off and turn it into a story to tell people, it's worked for me.

in class don't be silent or no one will notice you, but don't be obnoxious like constantly interrupting with jokes or questions. find a middle ground by just talking occasionally to those around you.

in any case you'll grow out of it. it was only the first day.  

Answer 7

You know i don't know how to help u because i kind of have that same problem also.

Answer 8

That might not be as bad as you may be thinking !?! For instance: I'll assume that you already have some choice things that you'd wear rather than some others !?! ... Take a`little time & match maybe your favorite shirt to go with some of the new bottoms/pants,dress,skirt & so on... Now might it have been that you may've been feeling or thinking to self how you have new school clothes maybe & some stress about how you'll keep them clean,net !?! do'nt worry `bout that !! Because some of that new stuff will get aged to the point that you'll be wondering or trying to decide which of them you'll put on just to  do something like clean your room after school.. Nearly all of the new outfits that you have will become those that you'll change into!?! That's if you do'nt have things that you'd wear cleaning up your home or rooms like your bed room & the kitchen !?! What I'm trying to say is: `,'ouch`',.`,'    r`'R'`r,r'r.r`r,r',. .............................