I had a baby 2months ago my mil been here the two months fil came 2 weeks ago?

Question

from el salvador and they are leaving saturday. my husband and i havent been getting alone because one he cheated while i was pregnant, gave me hpv, had the woman he cheated with in our house when i was out of town, the list goes on. we got into it last night for a stupid reason not worth saying. so i got up this morning to bring him to work at 5am i told him he was wrong and he got mad and pulled the wheel while i was driving and told me to let him out then he said hes catching the bus home and leaving to go back to el salvador with his family on saturday. i let him out the car, then drove back around and picked him up. i just dont want to cause problems while his family here. im really done with this relationship. should i tell his family what happen before he gets home so they will know my side of the story or just let it go? his mom doesnt speak nor understand english

Answer 1

geez stop fighting.. its got good for the baby.. if u need to talk do it when the baby is not around... and you two need to try to work it out for the babies sake... even if it means sacrificing a lil happiness...  

Answer 2

Let her know, because you don't know how he will tell the story and in their eyes you'll be the "evil" one. And plus, if you're "so done " with this relationship, why do you care what his family thinks of you?

Answer 3

I'm sure they have picked up on the tension in your home.  I wouldn't elaborate on it with them.  Your husband is a loser and you definitely deserve better.  Him leaving is probably for the best. Good luck!

Answer 4

tell his family, your sorry to ruin the end of their stay, but you need to clear an issue at hand. Tell them that things have not gone well at all for your marriage since you caught him cheating. This he has decided to go back with them and that you are staying, then ask if they wish to be kept informed about the kids and such.

      Leave it at that, and free yourself from this relationship. Your very capable of surviving with the kids and without the extra weight to drag around.  

Answer 5

I say let him get on the plane with them.  Good riddance.