I had a crush on my sister's husband?

Question

i used to be in love with a guy who is now married to my sis what should i do? she thinks im still in love with him...help

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Answer 1

if u care nothing for this guy anymore tell her u are happy that they are together and u do not like him in this way at all.

Answer 2

Well first off why would your sister marry a guy that you used to love?! If she knew that you used to love him then she had no right to even start talking to him much less date and MARRY him! That's a big no no! If you do still love him then I would either explain to your sister that she knew that you had feelings for him before they were a couple and if you don't love him then I would just try to talk to her and convince her that you are over him and looking for a man that is right for you. I would make sure to not be alone with her husband and not to get to personal with her or him in conversations. Find a man that is right for you and let her know that you don't need her man you have one of your own. Good luck!

Answer 3

Your sister should have never married someone that you used to be in love with. Maybe you are just in love with the idea of him being married to you. Girl just distance yourself for now from the situation and go and find someone else who can love you and then you will put her mind at ease.

Answer 4

Why does she think that?  Are you??

Answer 5

You should tel ur sis and her now husband the truth!!!!!

I dont think she will get made b/c u guys r sisters and all

I would just tell them the truth and talk about it :)

Answer 6

Well if she knew that you used to love him before she married him then what kind of sister is she marrying a man who the sister like before I think you should forget about this guy because now hes marriend with your sister and you can not break that marriage there so man out there that you could get.

Answer 7

explain to her how you moved on and keep distance from him.  

Answer 8

You must be or you would not be asking this question. You should tell your sister that you want to bang him, but only once and then tell her this specifically, say "I will get that sh*t out of my system". LOL