I had a dream last nite that i made out w a girl. I told her that i wznt g*y, and im not!!?

Question

But y'd i have that dream!!!!!! Im not g*y and i never will be!!!! I luv guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and yes, im a girl!!!

Answer 1

sounds like somebodies subconscious is trying to tell them something  

Answer 2

it dream is nothing more then a dream. calm down with your straight self.  

Answer 3

Well dreams usually reveal a subconsious thought, so maybe the idea has crossed your mind and you didnt register it on a "thinking" level but a subconsious.

Depending on your age I think its just natural curiosity, so being terrified at this thought at first is shocking but it doesn't at all mean your a lez, its just human nature to explore- imagination...its healthy (just my 2cents here)

My question is how did you FEEL in the dream? Maybe it was "nice" and you dont want to admit it..

Answer 4

okay...whats the question?

your not g*y.

it was a dream.

a dream.

so if you had a dream kissing a cat does that mean your in love with cats?

no.

stop overreacting.

and dont ask a question you already give an answer to.

Answer 5

You do not have repressed homosexual urges or desires, don't worry.

When we worry, or dwell on any given subject...our school, our friends, our problems in general, we tend to dream about them, and sometimes the dream will include things that you only vaguely noticed in reality, or things you might not even realize you saw or heard, and our subconscious will sometimes incorporate those images or moments with other images or moments that are completely unrelated in ways that we don't expect.

What you have on your mind, whether it be what someone said, or what you witnessed in your daily life can all affect your dreams. If the topic of sexuality comes up too much, and you wonder and worry what others think, or just worry in general, it can and will affect your dreams.

Our dreams don't tell us who we are, "we" tell us who we are.

There is no end in sight to the number of people who will continuously try to put ideas into your mind regarding sexuality that suits their own opinions...about finding who you are and experimenting, etc.

It sounds to me like you know very well who you are, and you are dwelling and worrying too much about this and in my opinion, that is why you are dreaming about it.

Answer 6

OK, calm down and put those extra exclamation points away before you hurt someone.

Dreams of kissing a friend are very common.  Remember, most of what happens in your dreams are symbols created by your subconscious.  By kissing your friend in your dream, your brain was simply saying "I care for and respect this person."  That's all it means--that you are a true friend who really cares for her, and that's great!

If you'd done more than kissing her in the dream....yeah, that would have made you g*y, or at least bisexual.

Answer 7

Maybe its a symbol of something going on in your friendship.  You told her in your dream that you aren't g*y, so it sounds like you were trying to break it to her that you don't feel the same way she does about something.  Do you find that this friend is trying to get you to overstep a boundary that you don't feel comfortable with, even though you love her as a friend.  For instance, demanding too much from you or expecting you to engage in activities (such as drinking or cutting class, etc) that you don't feel is part of your personality?  

If those answers are no, does this friend signify anything to you?  Do you feel she is (put a personality trait here)  that you would like to be, but feel like you just can't?   Maybe you are trying to put some part of her personality into your own personality, but can't figure out a way to do it.  (For instance, she's really outgoing and you are shy, and you really wish you could be more like her).