I had a dream that i was cheating on my boyfriend

Question

last night, i dreamt that i was in a store with a guy who wasnt my boyfriend. (it's kind of ironic because me and my boyfriend made-out in staples) i dreamt that me and the guy snuck in an isle and i gave him a handjob. then we started making out. when we were driving home, we made-out in the car. then he got dropped off at his house. i don't like this dream at all because i would never cheat on my boyfriend. the guy in my dream was attractive, but i don't know what it means. please help me. does this mean that i'm going to cheat on my boyfriend?!

Answer 1

It's hard to say. On a biblical level (and based on some peoples belief) the act of you simply having that dream is enough for you to be labeled a cheater...But the thing is most likely if your having those dreams that's the first step.  It could more than easily escalate from there and get even worse.  I advice you to tell whoever your with and see what needs to be done (there is probably something wrong with the current relationship in one way or another that induced those dreams).  Also if there was a male friend that was the one you had the dream with it might be required to remove that friend from your life those could be beginning feelings starting to develop.  It could also be a future warning...if you ever get in a similiar situation as the dream then you can know ahead of time what it'll develop into and make the right choice to avoid it.  Sometimes dreams are simply warning sirens to let you know of something you are going to have a chance to do wrong in the near future.

Answer 2

It was only a dream.  When you dream you're sitting in class in your underwear does it mean you're going to class naked?  Of course not,  Don't read anything into it.  It was a pleasant dream.  Get over it.

Answer 3

Dream analysts say that things in dreams are not what they seem. For example, birds can be an omen of death. So just because something happens in a dream doesn't mean you should take it literally. Appreciate your dream, act it out with your boyfriend if you want, but DONT tell him you dreamed about hooking up with another guy.

Answer 4

so i had a dream i was masturbating with my whole family  doesn't mean anything

Answer 5

i wanna hear what people have to say about this one cuz sometimes i have those dreams but i dont have the heart to cheat on my bf iam trying to understand it too what it means...ur not the only one lol

Answer 6

Grow up. It was a dream. I wish my bad dreams were like that. I have dreams of being tortured again and again.

Imagine if we all sought meaning in every dream.

Answer 7

Your not cheating on him just by having dreams about some other guy--everyone does it, it's normal. Besides, you can't control your dreams. The important thing is that you don't cheat on him in reality.

You asked if it means if your going to cheat on your boyfriend. You sound superstitious. It won't happen unless you make it happen.  

Answer 8

I have these dreams sometimes too, but it could be due to a need he is not furfilling.

For example I kept dreaming I had s*x with another guy and got pregno, then I dream I got raped and got pregno. I'd allwayz tell him bout the dream and we never really thought much of em. But I notice after haven his kid, I never have that dream anymore and it brought us closer than before.

So just try maken out with him in the store....lol but PLEASE do not do the handjob, cuz yall can get in trouble and I wouldn't want that to be my fault.

Answer 9

dreams effect opposite ppl that anrt dreaming it.. think about it.

Answer 10

cause deep deep DEEP down you want to cheat on him j/k maybe he got you mad?

you know if you didn't like the dream it call a nightmare

and because you love him and you really don't want to cheat on him that's why you had this nightmare

like I had a nightmare that this alligator was chasing me and trying to eat me

and trust me I don't want to ever get eaten my a alligator :]]