I had a miscarraige on the 11th of june and now im pregnant im very scared ?

Question

And the baby father doesn't know yet he's still really hurt by the miscarraige how do I tell him

Answer 1

First off Congratulations. I personally think you should wait until you are 12 weeks so the risk of miscarrying decreases drastically if you are scared of it happening again. If you chose to do it now you can show him the positive pregnancy test. If you chose to do it a little later you could show him a sonogram picture.

Good Luck and Congratulations again

Answer 2

Congratulations!!!

It is totally normal to be scared after having a miscarriage.  You may want to wait off on telling your boyfriend for fear of hurting him, but you really need the support right now.  Both of you need one another during this time!

I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks and am currently 8 weeks pregnant with my 2nd pregnancy.  I am scared to death, but try to remain positive.  Most women who miscarry go on to carry healthy babies!

Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

Relax and take refuge in prayer. Thats what i did. I miscarried in June of 2004 and got pregnant in September of 2004 (very similar to you) and i gave birth to my beautiful baby girl in May of 2005! She is 3 years old now and the joy of my life. I pray for similar joy for you!

Answer 4

1 thing is to relax and enjoy this, it is a very sad thing when a miscarriage happens but you cant let it ruin everything else. they happen due to genetic problems with the baby not anything you did. many women have them and go on to have healthy babies after... so take it easy and you will have a healthy baby in no time ( 9 months haha ) tell your husband with confidence, if he thinks your scared he will be as well.

Answer 5

I would lead him into it gently. and when the moment feels right tell him. congrats=)

Answer 6

He will be happy when he finds out but also like you scared again. Just take extra care of yourself and i hope everything goes fine.

Congratulations.

Answer 7

just relax and tell him the rightg time when u feel is right ok.

Answer 8

Honestly 25% of women experience at least 1 miscarriage in their lifetime. I had 2 prior to my son, 1 was tubal and the other was miscarriage. There is no way for anybody to tell you when is a good time. when YOU are comfortable you should let him know. everybody mourns in their own way but if the emotional from last pregnancy starts to effect you physically now in any way then maybe you two mourning together will open up the opportunity for you. This is very scary I know and I think you should make sure your secure inside before you talk with him so you can be his rock if hes not there yet!

Be excited about now! I am and don't even know you : ) enjoy every minute because soon you'll have a two year old running around expressing himself on your walls and covering his kool-aid trails on your carpets! It was all worth it for us me and my husband managed and here we are with our son and all his glory bless his very active heart!

Answer 9

You just tell him. I don't know of any other way. Hopefully he will be very happy. Good luck to both of you.