I had a question like this....my 13 year old friend smokes...?

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Nobody helped. its not normal. her dad is a drunkie.she gets drunk and c**p. her mom is wierd like she just it. like she acts like a 2nd grader. old clothes. they live in a S****y house.jolinda is her name and she gets good grades and now she smokes and drinks. still does. DO you know how much trouble she would be in if we took physicals this year? Im sick of hearing it. its normal! haha right...its not! and i need help! SHE NEEDS TO STOP! It has got soo out of hand that a 12th grader (senior) pulled up a 13 year oldsshirt to see her b***s. SO I GUESS THATS NORMAL TOO HUH? And also, she got so drunk, she fricking woke up in her yeard in the middle of the nght not knowing what happened. I need her to stop! how can i get her too! If you think im wrong, star my question

Answer 1

d**n you gonna put her name out here like that!!!

i think you should mind your own buisnes to an extent i know people who are drunks are filthy etc. but i dont have to live with them, if thats your friend well mayby you should take up the leadership role and try to help her shange her life in another direction, take her t find a job or do things that dont require drinking and smoking and if that doesnt work then tell her shes bad company and you dont ant friends like that and mind your own buisnesss !

Answer 2

I was one of the people who answered your first question and I have to say now what I said then -- you probably can't do anything. The smoking isn't abnormal -- you'll see lots of kids smoking next year when you get into high school -- and neither is the fact that she's drinking. It does sound like she's drinking too much and as I said there are serious consequences to that -- brain damage, possibly alcoholism. I'm sorry to see that happen. From your description, it sounds to me like she's headed for trouble. But you can't change this. You're going to see more and more of it as you get older, you're going to lose some friends to drugs and alcohol. It isn't nice but that's the way it is.

Answer 3

i've read some of the answers to this question. and most people said stuff bout her name. well guess what?!?! theres a million jolindas out there. ok? anyway back to your question. if she is addicted to smoking already i would have her call quitline. go to quitline.com it gives you info. or go to a doctor they have like smoking cards there that u call to help u stop smoking.so id get her 1 of those and make sure she calls. as for the drinking.. that may be harder. id have her stay at ur house more at night. and not at her house where she can drink all she wants. get her out of her house. have her drink a lot of water instead of alchohal. and call child serivices or whatever its called. :]

hope that helped!

Answer 4

the only thing I can recommend is going to child services and you shouldn't put her name on here.  

Answer 5

She is lucky to have you for a friend. Since her mother and father are not the best examples, can your mom talk to her? Do you have a favorite teacher who you trust? An older sister or an aunt who could talk to her?

Tell her she is going to end up dead if she doesn't stop. About the smoking.....tell her you heard of someone who never smoked a cigarette ever and they have emphysema just from second hand smoke. Do you know what that is?  You can not let air out of your lungs and are drowning in you own air. It is horrible and it is caused from smoking or second hand smoke. My sister has this and she never smoked a day in her life buy my parents did and my sister also owned a restaurant/bar where there were smokers.....not good.....she is very young and it is killing her slowly and horribly.

Good luck honey.........I wish I could help more.