I had a terrrible night, and lied to my mom

Question

i asked to sleep at my friends last night, and my mom said no but i was realyl sleeping over at my boyfriends

and he was having a party type thing

now im in alot of trouble, and i get why and stuff

stupid idea

but whats really bothering me, is should i tell my mom i have a bf

and i wanna see him and be with him

other than lying to her?

cause imscared she wont like him

Answer 1

Be honest with your mom, she loves you and if you are undecided as to if you should or shouldn't tell her the truth then you must have a lot of respect for her. Some times the truth hurts, but everything will work itself out if you are up front.

Answer 2

Just tell your mom.

You wont know if she likes him until she meets him.

Answer 3

If he was keeping you out all night and she doesn't even know about him, then you are right, she won't like him. Because she doesn't even know him and already he shows you disrespect and shows her disrepsect as your parent.  Dump the loser and get a hold of yourself.  You can't go down that road you will ruin your life totally.  When you have a bf that is decent then your mom will be okay, but a good bf would not have you sleeping over and getting you in this kind of trouble.  Turn back while you have your dignity.  Gals (and guys for that matter) that act this way trash their lives before they even get started.  Start over again, get a decent respectable bf, who more than that, respects you, which this one doesn't. and you will repair  your homelife and your own life.

Answer 4

My mom used to not let me spend the night at my boyfriends house. So I would tell her I was gonna spend the night at my friends house. And one time when I was leaving to really spend the night at my boyfriends house..so as I was walking out the door I yelled bye im staying at jennys tonight. And my mom just said...who's house are you really going to. And I just said jennys again. And she asked me again so I just told her I was going to sleep at my boyfriends house. And then she told me that she already knew I have been sleeping there. I only got in trouble for lying because my mom said she would rather know where I really am even if she doesn't like it. And now I spend the night at his house all the time with no problem at all. You should just talk to her and tell her you have a boyfriend and that you would like to see him more and spend the night or something like that ..and let yoour mom get to know your boy...that's always good :]

Answer 5

you should tell her.  if your mom doesn't like him...you probably shouldn't either.  and it seems like you may already think this.  

Answer 6

It depends on how old you are on decisions. If you are over 16 you should know who to not hang around with. If you are not over that age you should consult your mother about this boy. If she doesn't like him reason with her if she disagrees you should ask her why. However, if she does not give you an appropriate answer then you should tell her that, that is not good enough to tell you.

Try not to lie to parents.

Answer 7

Tell her about him asap! So if she finds out from someone else first she will hate him and never accept him as your bf.

Answer 8

if you really like your bf and he really likes you neither of you would want to lie to your parents and have to sneak around. He should be man enough to introduce himself to your mom when he picks you up for a real date.

did you ever think that maybe your mom said no to the sleepover because she doesn't trust you and knows that you are lying about something?

Answer 9

just tell her. Honesty is the best policy -xx-

Hope i helped

Answer 10

i think you should tell her.  

Answer 11

I was afraid to tell my mom I had a bf too.

one night she asked me if he was my bf cause i had been spending alot of time with him. and she ended up being cool with it. just take the chance, she was young once too. and if she starts being wierd about it remind her that she was like that once too

Answer 12

Be honest with her nd tell her the truth.

Answer 13

be sure that before you tell your mom that it's okay with her for you tohave a boyfriend cause if it's not okay then don't tell her.. it's gonna be a big drama..but in the other hand if its okay with her then tell her that you have one and stand up for your boyfriend whether she liks him or not.  

Answer 14

let her meet him

Answer 15

Like the other comments, honesty is truly the best policy.  I think that you should tell your mother that you have a boyfriend, so that she knows and trusts you.  So, my advice, by the time that you tell her the truth, have your boyfriend come over to your house for dinner and let the mom and the boyfriend know each other.  This would be the perfect opportunity.

Answer 16

It would be the mature thing to do and that will help if she knows she can trust you

Answer 17

you slept at your boyfriends and your mom has never even met him. You just blew it.

Now she won't like him whether he is a great guy or not. You lied and betrayed her trust and  that is what will hurt your mom the most. Now she will never trust you