I had a weird dream ....pls analyze?

Question

well..im in a hotel and my ex is warming some milk for me... it does not work out so i take the mik up in my room where my husband is waiting. it appears we are in Hawaii .

well the reception calls that the water level is rising ...( dunno what that means)

my husband and i are in our room ..but my ex i can see him from the balcony he is downstairs near the ocean ..i cry for him ( he might be in danger) but my husband feels its ok??

and i got up.

Any sense?

Answer 1

Your dream suggests that you are still working out some conflict in your heart and mind about your feelings for your ex and your husband.

Warming milk for you is a gentle thing, if that is literally what you meant.  It is something one does for another to sooth when there is a harsh distraction or inability to sleep.  If it didn't 'work out' that implies that despite the best efforts of your ex, the affection is just no longer there.  Perhaps he was distressed at losing you - or perhaps you wish it hadn't happened but are having to admit to yourself that it just wasn't the relationship you needed, despite some attractions there.

But you do care - the water rising is something we think about with all the fuss these days over global warning and such, not to mention the dreaded Tsunami threat.  Hawaii is a place of romance and comfort - all should be well, but this concern interferes.  

In the midst of this your ex seems to stumble into harm's way and you see that.  It bothers you that he may be harmed.  You express concern only to have your husband pull you away emotionally.  

Can it be that while your husband may recognize your lingering feelings - innocent ones, after all you did go to him when the earlier affectionate attempt failed - he gently steers you toward releasing this other fellow?  While you may have moved on in a big way, there still seems to be sympathy for this other fellow - that he is lonely perhaps, or you see him as needful in some ways.

Maybe he is.  But your dream seems to suggest your mind is finally wrestling with release.  It appears it is time to put this fellow behind you - a person can only be truly devoted to one.  Divided attention as in your dream will poison the relationship you should be cultivating.

The dream then is positive - and reinforces some subconscious notions you've struggled with facing and disposing of.  It seems to say 'time to let go' - he will be OK even if it gets dicey at times for him.  I cannot 'save' him.  That may have even been a reason for leaving in the first place, and now you feel some guilt.  

If so, it is time to let go - that would be part of the message too.  We're all human and can only do so much.  Unless beyond all independence, each of us must do the best we can for our own sustenance.

Consider these points - they are suggested by what you have shared.  Enjoy the comforts of 'Hawaii' with your husband without guilt.  Release the notions of trying to rekindle affections where the feelings may be there but cannot be actualized - and remember that such a failure may have been part of the parting in the first place: you cannot build a healthy relationship on pity for another.  

You can always hold him in good regard without needing to feel you must somehow take care of him - that duty is to your husband now, and it is the same for him.  Let the ex find his way off the beach - if he can't, get some friends to hold his hand.

Think this over - it may help your understanding a bit.

All the best to you.

Answer 2

well if theres water in a dream...

it can sometimes mean s*x...

maybe the water level rising

is your sexual energy for your ex?  

Answer 3

This dream could indicate that your ex-boyfriend remains a very important part of your life. You and your husband apparently is on vacation and your ex also happens to be there. Perhaps it is something in your ex attitude or behaviour that you really admire. It could be that your ex-boyfriend was very caring and did a lot of things for you. Notice in the dream that your ex is the one warming the milk for you which paints an image of him caring for you and doing little things for you. Then you decide to leave your ex taking the milk to your room where your husband is waiting. The bedroom indicates or gives a sense of intimacy. Then the receptioon calls and says that the water is rising which indicates trouble. Perhaps it is a tsunami. you and your husband are seen in your room safe and sound meanwhile your ex is in great danger. you express sadness at the thought of anything happening to him and your husband is nonchalant with a no care attitude. This section of the dream could indicate that you are concern about the well being of your ex. You and your husband are together and you and at the same time you have deep concerns for your ex. Perhaps you are wondering if he is okay managing on his own without you in his life anymore. You maybe concerned that he is lonely in some way and you feel bad for him. Your husband's attitude shows your subconscious feeling that he doesn't have any regard for your boyfriend or it could be that you feel he is neglecting certain aspects that your ex boyfriend had. He is not nurturing or catering to that part and although you want him to he does not see it as necessary to cater to that aspect of his personality.

Answer 4

water level is rising means some kind of danger, may its for your ex and you want to rescue him from that and because of your family matters you are not able to do so, i think you have to be carefull with your relation with your husband and tell your ex to be out of your mind and life.

sorry if im hurting you.

Answer 5

you still have passion about your ex,but you loves your husband

Answer 6

maybe you should not concentrate on dreams cuz they may spoil your

mind and create phobias.I`ve seen a man like that.he would walk around for fun.