I had a wet dream?

Question

Im over 20 now, and i don't even remember the last time i had one. Im stressed out from work and tired of life, but all of a sudden i had a wet dream. whats up?

Answer 1

your totally normal dude, dont stress- doesnt matter whats going on in your life atm even whether your sexually active, they just happen :)

Answer 2

Your dream is normal and is likely a relieving product of the stress and tiredness you are feeling in your waking world.

If you are young enough to experience this (it pretty well fades away with age, sorry) you are too young to be burning out this fast.  Relief in a dream is nice enough but you need some time to enjoy life during your waking hours.  Easy for one to tell you that - you are the one stuck in a work-a-day world where that can be awfully tough to do.

Do try, however.  There's nothing wrong with your dream - but 'what's up', if not speaking for itself, is your need for some real company among some fun people who can help you escape the rigors of life for a few hours now and then.

Try to find that time.  The harm will not come from a thousand such dreams, but a few years of living as you describe is terribly destructive.  Consider depression too - you may need a bit of help if that's a constant drag on you.  It gets into a cycle and has to be broken before you can find the energy and freedom to move on.  By what you describe that's a bit of a concern - don't hesitate to see your doctor if that seems to be the case and you can't break out of it on your own.

All the best to you.