I had an ex-teacher who I thought was hot come up to me at my work and.......?

Question

he asked me where I hang out these days, if I was in college still, if I had my own place, how I'd been doing etc. He showed me a picture of his kids too. He is married and over 10 years older than me. Do you think he approached me just to see how I was doing or do you think he was flirting with me and likes me?

Answer 1

both

ten years difference is not that much

Answer 2

you tell me, could be both

Answer 3

regardless of wether he likes you or not he is a married man and he is off limits.  if he is more forward with his approach then you should be stern and tell him that you are not interested.

Answer 4

yes and he could be closet killer, trying to find you alone at home

Answer 5

he was just seeing how his former student was doing.. if he was flirting he probably wouldn't talk about his family with you..  

Answer 6

Depends....what kind of body language was he giving off?  Did you ever let him know you thought he was attractive, did you ever give him any reason to flirt with you?

Answer 7

Was this the only time? If he comes back to your work you might think he is tracking you as his next challenge. During middle-age, men turn into "dogs'. This type of crisis is all over the news these days and you may be the next victim.

Answer 8

Did he know you thought he was hot? Did he ever give you the impression that he felt the same? If he told you that once, then yes I think he is flirting, but did you give a sign that you might be flirting with him too? Sometimes people, men in particular, show others pictures of their children to show how loving and caring of a person they are. Stay away! Next time don't play into his flirting, cut him off by saying "oh yeah, (such and I) just met and it's going really well, I am so excited!" (even if he doesn't exist!)turn the tables and make the conversation about a new guy that's interesting and cool (even though he doesn't exist) so that he could see you aren't really interested, unless you are and if you are then think about the consequences...a little FYI if you are, men NEVER leave their wives there is just too much of a gamble there, the children the house the divorce expense etc. good luck! It just might be innocent. Sometimes we read into things a little harder than we should. Life isn't always a Shakespeare book!

Answer 9

No i honestly think he was just wanting to see how you were doing, how did u come up w/him being flirtatious w/you, did he ever flirt w/you or anyone else before? why would u think that, anyway i think he is just simply asking how u were doing since College days that's all.