I had s*x.. what are the chances of me getting pregnant if..?

Question

I'm 14. im very much in love with my boyfriend. But my parents dint approve of him because hes older and really experienced. Ive been with him for 2 months and he loves me like CRAZY. We are gonna get married one day. Ok so we aren't virgins but this was the first time we had s*x together [if was great by the way] and he used a condom. He busted inside the condom in me and kept going for like 20 more seconds. This was a week before my period. I wasn't worried but now i am because i was supposed to get my period yesterday and ha vent but today REALLY REALLY little blood came out and i thought it was my period but it was so light that i don't even have to wear a pad or anything. Usually i have a VERY heavy flow.. VERY.I'mIm scared but i kinda want to have a baby because i love my boyfriend so much. Hes in college right now but sees me every weekend. Hes going to get enough money and get an apartment. So what are the chances of me being pregnant? I herd if it was greta s*x your child comes out cuter. It was GREAT s*x..HELP ME?!

Answer 1

If the condom didn't broke then you wont be pregnant. he have to come with out the condom or it has to broke in order for you to even think you could be pregnant but if should be wait for a week after your period was supposed to come on and it don't or two then I would start to worry a period can be one to two weeks late and you can not be pregnant but my answer to you is to wait can see whats go on in your body. and another thing stress or worrying can delay your period or thinking that you are pregnant so bad that your mind tells your body that you are really pregnant and it will make you miss it fro some weeks it happened to me and come to find out I was not even pregnant. I you are really 14 I think that you should wait to try to get pregnant you need to think this over alot think of how much it cost to take care of your self and the baby ok think this over but goo lucky anyway if you are.! I have two and its not that easy I have a one year old and a 8 month old.  

Answer 2

you definately don't need a child.  And I can guarantee you that you won't be together forever like you think you will be.  You're 14!!! If he's in college he has some pedafile issues...... and once you're too grown up, he'll probably dump you for another 14 year old.... ew!  No wonder your parents don't like him...do your self a favor stop having s*x, dump the child molester, and go hang out with your friends go to movies, the mall, what ever...

Answer 3

Wow, I sure hope you're not pregnant because you are way to immature to be a mother.

Ok, it is illegal for you to have s*x with your boyfriend. If anyone finds out, he can be charged with statutory rape.

It is possible for you to be pregnant, but the only way to know for sure is to take a test.

The quality of the s*x has nothing to do with the cuteness of your child. That's determines by the combination of genes the kid gets from each parent. Find a biology teacher and ask him.

You do NOT need a baby right now. Baby's aren't just cute little toys to play with. They cry and p**p and need constant care. They grow up to be children. Children become teenagers. You do not have the means to care for a child emotionally or financially.

If you intend to keep having s*x, please get on the pill in addition to using condoms. If there's a Planned Parenthood in your area, you can get it for free without your parents knowing. If not, suck it up and talk to your parents. That is...if you're not pregnant. If you are, well good luck with that.

By the way, even if he gets an apartment, you can't live with him without your parents' permission.

Answer 4

The only way to truly know is to go to your parents and have them take you to a doctor to get a pregnancy test done.  It hurts me to hear that a 14 yr old could be pregnant.  I have children your age and would be upset at first but I wold deal with it.  For your sake I hope you arent pregnant.....you have your whole life ahead of you!  Going to your parents is the best idea.....If you are tooo scared of your parents you can at least go to the doctor yourself and seek help or ask a friend (adult) you really trust.  If you arent pregnant I hope you learn something from this....If you are then you just changed your whole life!

If he's in college what is he doing with a 14 yr old anyway...I think that can be considered sexual abuse of a minor.

Answer 5

There is a good probability that you are pregnant.  I'd suggest picking up a pregnancy test and following the instructions closely and hope for the best.  Here's what you're facing:

1.  Given that you're 15 and your BF is in college, most likely he is over 18.  He has now committed statutory rape (depending on the age of consent in your state - your mileage may vary).  If you are under the age of consent, then your parents can file charges against him.

2.  You have no idea how difficult it is to raise a child.  Neither does your BF.  You will need the help and support of your parents to keep the child while giving yourself any chance of finishing high school and him finishing college.

3.  Your BF's judgement is suspect because he broke a condom inside you and didn't IMMEDIATELY run out to get an RU-246 kit for you.  So the chances of him sticking around after the baby is born is questionable and the odds of you two making it are slim.  They're not non-existent but they're not great either.

4.  Your parents already don't like this guy and now they have to live with the fact that you might have a baby by him?  They're not going to be happy.  Regardless of their disapproval, YOU NEED TO TELL THEM WHAT HAPPENED RIGHT AWAY.  Don't be one of those stupid morons that try to hide the pregnancy and then give birth in a toilet stall and kill themselves or the baby.  Just because you screwed up doesn't mean your baby has to suffer also.

5.  No matter what the anti-abortion activists might say, consider an abortion with the input of your parents.  It's your body and at the end of the day it's your choice as to whether or not to get one but you need older/wiser heads to weigh in.  I wouldn't suggest involving your BF more or less than your parents.

And just as a point of reference, I was 28 and my gf was 21 when we had our accidental pregancy.  Despite the fact that she was out of college and I had a good job, raising that child was HARD - so hard that we wound up getting divorced after 5 years of marriage.  Don't force your poor decisions on your unborn child.  If you can't take care of him/her either get the abortion or give it up for adoption and let it have a chance at something better.

Answer 6

poor child... if you think he's going to "marry you one day" you are such a fool. Sweetie for your sake and your parents, i hope you are not pregnant.  Good luck to your parents

Answer 7

I don't think that its the age to get involved in sexual activities. I am 15 and if I had any girl friend, I would never had done anything like that at least before I get elder. Anyways, if you have done it then what can be done now. Actually, no one can tell you that are you pregnant or not through this internet service. So you better any doctor near you, and have a test. Only doctors can tell you it clearly. I hope you're not pregnant.

Answer 8

when i was 14 i first had s*x and the exact thing happened to me!!!! i thought i was pregnant all the time even though i had done 2 pregnancy tests!!! and how old is this kid ur dating exactly?? i hav also had the period problem!!! i thought i was pregnant because only the smallest amount of blood came out and this went on for bout 2-3 days but then i came on properly!!! dont worry yourself to much sweetie its only been a day!!! alot of people r late on their periods!!!! hope your ok!!! and remember dont worry to much!!! x*x

Answer 9

i would get a test & if its postive then  get a abortian because think of what the people at school would say you would habve a bad reputation x

Answer 10

To be honest and seeing this im shocked!!

But to be very honest you say you LOVE him love doesnt come with in the first 2 months hunny.im 26 years old and me and my partner have been together for 8 years and we are only now getting married.

If i was you i would sit down with your mum and tell her because you are only 14 and have your whole life a head of you.

And a baby is for life.And it doesnt matter how great s*x it is who ever is telling you these things are mad.Please do me a favour and tell your folks before it really is to late.and your throwing your life away for a guy that seems to just want s*x and is probly having it with not just you.when you grow up you will see what love really is and what it takes to bring a child up!!to be honest i think if you tell him he will run a 100 miles.  

Answer 11

great s*x has buggar all to do with what your child looks like. if you dont know that genetics determine this you are not mature or intelligent enough to be having s*x. i hope for a potential babies sake that you are not pregnant as you have serious growing up to do. if you are so mature and think you can have s*x why not take the responsible step of using your brain and get a pregnancy test which is far more reliable than bragging about your s*x life at 14 yrs old.

I agree college boys use silly little s***s for s*x then move on when they get pregnant and the reason you think he is experienced is because either you arent OR he is a male s**t/paedophile and has slept with many many silly little girls like you

Answer 12

1. If your parents don't like him, and you're 14 and he is in college, you don't want to have his baby. They would most likely press charges against him and he would be put in jail.

2. Chances are you aren't pregnant.

3. Wth is this world coming to.

Answer 13

hm, what you experienced could have been implantation bleeding.. witch happens when your pregnant ha it sounds  a lot like it actually.. look it up on google and see if thats what you had.

i think the great s*x making your baby cuter is a myth, but every parent usually thinks there baby is cute no matter what.

im kinda in the same situation as you so im not going to lecture you just be careful with your boyfriend since he is a lot older,

and just be wise on your decision if you are pregnant.

goodluck!

and congrats if you are pregnant!

Answer 14

wow, 14 young bad, sick, take a test. dont be silly wrap the willy haha

Answer 15

He's in college? He could go to jail for this. You are 14! you should be studding for school or something. Great s*x? I am disgusted at the thought of a young girl saying those words!

Oh yea to your answer....yes you could be pregnant! I hope to god your not so you have a chance at having a good life and get yourself an education! Great s*x does not = a cuter child! If you are ugly and he is ugly you don't have a prayer! Now I have to go puke!

Answer 16

Honey, you wouldn't know great s*x if it slapped you in the face, especially since you're with a boy that's probably s******g other girls while you're in class. You're under aged, this is extremely illegal by the way! You better pray to god you're not pregnant because he will go to prison and you'll be stuck alone with a baby. Get out of this relationship, college boys REALLY only like high school girls for one reason and one reason only, you girls are naive and will spread your legs with little or no thought at all. Stop while you're ahead.

Answer 17

TOO MUCH INFORMATION.

Take a test to know for sure...we can't tell you over Y/A.

Answer 18

Sounds romantic!  All in love at 14....experienced boyfriend who busts inside of you....a baby on the way.  

Congratulations!

Answer 19

lol...great s*x makes your child come out cuter.  Never heard that before, thanks for the laugh.  It's not true by the way!  Did the condom break?  If not, you're probably not pregnant, but condoms aren't 100% so sure there's a chance.  Taking a test is the only way to know.  It's sad that at 14 you aren't a virgin.  You should be playing sports or somethign instead of having s*x with a college kid - which by the way, I'm pretty sure is illegal since you are only 14.

Answer 20

I would keep my fingers crossed if I were you that you aren't pregnant. So there is about a 5 year age difference at the least and if he is 18 or older when your child is born he can go to jail for statutory rape because you are so young. The only way you can find out for sure is to take a pregnancy test but keep your fingers crossed for only 1 line.

Answer 21

You better hope your not pregnant, you got a lot of growing up to do!

Answer 22

u def do have alot of growing up to do.. im def sure that boy is only telling u he is crazy about u to get in ur pants.. and ur parents are most likely right pray u arent pregnant but take a test to make sure.. grow up n then think about having s*x again bcuz 14 is way to young too have kids trust me im 20 with 2 toddlers and life with kids isnt cute it is hard work.. i def dont think ur ready for any of that.. go to school and ignore boys that r older than u bcuz they only want one thing

Answer 23

I'm not going to sugar-coat anything.. This is the real world, and real side effects that comes with s*x.

One.. he raped you.. even if it was consensual, you are under the age of consent, and he is an adult. This is called statutory rape. If you are pregnant, you can say good bye to your boyfriend, because he will be in Jail, look it up if you don't believe me!

Second, its still possible to get pregnant with a condom, especially if it was rough, the condom can tear.

Third take a test to find out, then tell your parents. They are going to have to know because i doubt a college student and a 14 years old girl can cover the cost and bills of doctor appts, delivery, and baby stuff.

Fourth, college students have no money! Believe me I've been one for 4 years now. He may "love you" but for how long. What do you think he's telling his friends, I'm dating a 14 years old girl. Believe me no, he would be disowned.. He's going to find someone his own age and he's not going to want to be with you.  

Answer 24

I think you may just be...the little blood you had is called implementation, that's when the egg is fertilized and sticks itself into the uterus. Take a test ASAP!  

Answer 25

first of all are you crazy? you are way too young to have a baby, you need therapy. second of all nobody can answer that on here, it's a 50/50 chance always, anytime you have s*x. if you think about it s*x is not for pleasure, it is for procreation. either way you need to go to the doc. or go to Planned Parenthood