I had this weird dream last night i was wanting to know if anyone can tell me what is going on?

Question

Ok my ex from like 3 years ago was in this dream i had like 3 times last night over and over again. When we broke up 3 years ago it was hard. I broke up with him because when we would get into a fight we would not talk for a week or so and he would go sleep with someone else it only happen twice but that was 2 times to many for me. We stayed friends for about 6 months after the brake up. And then one of his friends told him something...(and when i say something i mean something that must not have been good and i have never talked or heard from him again). But i know that guy still talks to him he tells my friend about him all of the time.

Answer 1

Ok, having been one that answered your OTHER question, before seeing this question, I do have an answer for you on this one.  You say in real life he would cheat on you after a fight.  This is not "fighting fair" in the relationship world.  It literally lets you know what he would have done in future fights if ya'll would have stayed together.  This was his "excuse" to do what he would eventually have done to you in the future without a fight as an excuse.  

Now, in your dream, he is smiling and waving.  This tells me he is happy and satisfied with the decisions he made in your relationship, which was the fact that he cheated with other girls and didn't care how bad he hurt you.  You say you had a blank face and couldn't think of anything to say to him.  This tells me that in your mind you don't want to smile at him, or lead him on in any way (which is good) and it also says  that because you can't "think" of anything to say, basically there is nothing to say to him.  It may have been hard, but even your dream world is telling you to make sure you don't contact him.  

Also, it doesn't really matter what the other guy said to him because your ex had already cheated on you twice.  The relationship was over at that point, whether you broke up immediately or not.

Answer 2

maybe you feel insecure around him & him being & talking with his friends makes you feel jealous & they know something you dont???? Dreams about lovers and exes are usallly the same like you miss them

Answer 3

I think its because your breakup was left without questions answered. He sounds like he was very immature in listening to someone else and not giving you the benefit of even defending yourself. Maybe its better that you're finding out now. I guess your dreming about not speaking to him because you didn't get the chance to.